Re: How to dump Alpha women
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Originally Posted by Expat
INTj:
Decision about parting with an INTj is often made independently. To accelerate this process this simple method will be required: constant sexual solicitations, diluted by emotional conversations on the same subject. Consider that her behavior regarding the break cannot be accurately foreseen, it can be extreme: either the widespread scandals on the division of property, or her proud disappearance with one bag. Everything depends on what, in her opinion, is correct in this case.
I didn't really understand this.
Sex and emotions don't bother me. :?
Re: How to dump Alpha women
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Originally Posted by gaypog
Quote:
Originally Posted by Expat
INTj:
Decision about parting with an INTj is often made independently. To accelerate this process this simple method will be required: constant sexual solicitations, diluted by emotional conversations on the same subject. Consider that her behavior regarding the break cannot be accurately foreseen, it can be extreme: either the widespread scandals on the division of property, or her proud disappearance with one bag. Everything depends on what, in her opinion, is correct in this case.
I didn't really understand this.
Sex and emotions don't bother me. :?
They do me. I would end up equating this with neediness and would be upset/disgusted. Depending on how close I was to the person it wouldn't necessarily drive me away, but if it was a relatively new relationship it would. And the leaving with one bag thing is definately me.
Re: How to dump Alpha women
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Originally Posted by gaypog
Quote:
Originally Posted by Expat
INTj:
Decision about parting with an INTj is often made independently. To accelerate this process this simple method will be required: constant sexual solicitations, diluted by emotional conversations on the same subject. Consider that her behavior regarding the break cannot be accurately foreseen, it can be extreme: either the widespread scandals on the division of property, or her proud disappearance with one bag. Everything depends on what, in her opinion, is correct in this case.
I didn't really understand this.
Sex and emotions don't bother me. :?
Expat was specifically referring to Alpha women.
I wonder if dumping an Alpha male would entail something along the lines of the female making constant sexual solicitations to a different male(s), diluted by emotional conversations regarding those advances towards others.
I think this forum has become intimately familiar with scandelous behavior of male intjs who've felt treated by such manners.
What do you think, Hugo? Does it bother you that women show their sexuality to other men, but reject you?
Re: How to dump Alpha women
Quote:
Originally Posted by gaypog
Quote:
Originally Posted by Expat
INTj:
Decision about parting with an INTj is often made independently. To accelerate this process this simple method will be required: constant sexual solicitations, diluted by emotional conversations on the same subject. Consider that her behavior regarding the break cannot be accurately foreseen, it can be extreme: either the widespread scandals on the division of property, or her proud disappearance with one bag. Everything depends on what, in her opinion, is correct in this case.
I didn't really understand this.
Sex and emotions don't bother me. :?
:8*
It's not that sex and emotions must "bother" an INTj....
For the sake of example, consider an ESFp: I've been around ESFps a lot, and it is a good demonstration of this uncomfortable ness - they will often solicit you for sex, or talk about it a lot. And hey - it is not that I do not like sex, no, but someone pushing it on you so much,it's not my way.
It has to do, almost, with a sort of passive domaneering --- why can't you satisfy the ESFp? It seems like she always wants something, and as an INTj, it seems like you cannot give it to her (I am refering to much more than simply sex).
Now, I'm not a female, but if you translate it into the feminine version, it probably would still apply.
As for emotions - it is not emotions inand of themselves, per se.... it is the connection behind them, the reasoning behind them. WHether it is justified in feeling a certain way. If someone is being very emotionaland i don't see a valid connection or reason, then it is a turn off, because it is false.
I don't like when people lie, especially about how they feel about me --- because, due to to my hypersensativity to how people react to me, if the person says one thing and then acts in another way, then my confidence or trust in that person starts to fall. And it is rare enough as it is that I would actually select someone.
Just be emotionally irrational, and that should get rid of an INTj.