Originally Posted by
aixelsyd
I have no opinion on your enneagram type number (edit: well, maybe I do, but it's not very strong) but before you even said it, the stacking that came to mind was that you were social and self-preservational, and that sp/so made more sense than so/sp. Wanting connections is normal for a lot of people and doesn't seem really related to any stacking though I see sexual instinct as being a preoccupation with connection (not necessarily physical or at all sexual, but relationships whether they pertain to you or not and being preoccupied with such might be a good indication of being sexual in ennea-speak or at least not sexual last, depending on the time and energy you expend mentally or otherwise on that which falls under the sexual variant umbrella).
What do you think of 8w9 sp/so for enneatype? 9w8 might be a decent fit based on things said, but only you can really know.