Because no one's perfect.
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Because no one's perfect.
Ugh. Freaking everything. SLEs suck, especially since I currently have no interest in becoming a better person.
Lack of Fi is annoying b/c when I don't have a clever Fe way of convincing them to do stuff, I'm pretty much just stuck, because they're not going to figure it out and do it on their own. Also, they can be kind of bossy. Like, seriously, dude? When did I become your assistant. Never? Oh, when, never? Yes, that's right, never? I think that problem is solved with a female dual, though, because I'll pretty much be her slave for sex. Or even the possibility of future sex. (Not really. I ain't crazy.)
how they think everybody likes them. pfffft. No, sorry, everybody likes ME, not you.
The insane drama.
you know, they're weird.
I really can't think of anything to hate. Maybe that they don't seem to make enough time for one on one.
They are manipulative at times, and what's worse is that sometimes people don't realise it (including the EIE who is doing it) and think the world of them.
Well they make me feel like I'm constantly holding a butterfly. One wrong move and suddenly the damn thing will never fly again.
How their attention to me is so sporadic and based on whim. :frustrated:
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They're too inclusivistic and incapable of being bitches to stupid people.
They keep moving away and they don't come in diverse enough enneagram options.
Why do you want a 4 in the triad or tritype or whatever? I'd imagine that LSEs would be annoyed by most four-ish qualities.
Also, speaking of triads, my idealized dual's enneagram chord is Imaj7, no 5. Your dual's is IV. Mine is III7, no third.
No idea. I don't know many LSEs. LSE 8s would probably annoy me the most though.Quote:
What LSE E-type are you most familiar with?
Because 8s are like 4s, just flipped inside out. And I'm 7ish enough for the both of us. I don't really need a push to go explore and do exciting things outside. I need a push to get off my ass and work towards whatever the goal is.
ISFps can be pretty guarded individuals (unless you impress them), same with ESFjs (unless you let them push you around)...
For you? Just make sure you stay away from sx firsts! They spell nothing but trouble for the poor sp-first :o
As for me...
Lol, it's a toughy. I think another sx/sp might be a bit stormy and intense for me. I think sx/sps in general seem to be really nerve-wracking experiences for anyone they consider close to them :lol: :oops:
I think I'll just say that my head isn't in the right place at the moment to be fantasising about types and stackings :P
lol.
@Starfall, I've actually inspired the impulse to protect in SLEs. Which I find rather comical, although I don't know that anyone would describe me as the strongest person they know.
Hmmm. Perhaps I painted the wrong picture.
Yes they do seem kinda fragile, but not so much that they are going to be broken but more-so that my relationship with them is easily damaged, not to say it can't be fixed. It's just that more often than not the fixing requires a certain amount of pride swallowing on my part which I'm not very inclined to do unless I really care for the person.
It's weird though because it's for that same reason I could see an intimate relationship between me and an IEI going very well. I like putting out fires.
I guess it depends on how much I like the person, If I don't care for them it's a nuisance if I do care for them then it's a blessing.
So basically victim-aggressor. Worth it if the person is worth it, if not, then not. Reminds me of a song about relationships (written by an LSI, btw).Quote:
It's weird though because it's for that same reason I could see an intimate relationship between me and an IEI going very well. I like putting out fires.
"We build a treehouse/I keep it from shaking/little more glue every time that it breaks/something something something/then I start making/conscious, deliberate mistakes."
They don't post/ boost my ego in the "what do you like about your dual" thread :(:thumbsdown:
Also when they leave I feel like I have phantom limb syndrome
hahaha
Funny, I feel the same loss of control thing, except its internal control rather than external control. In fact, I was having this conversation with an SLE about how I was very selective about whose opinion I decided to care about, because if I care about your opinion then you have a measure of control over me, and I don't like other people having control of me. I like to always have the right to completely ignore whatever other people tell me to do/think/be/anything. When you let other people in you lose that right of refusal.
But yeah, it's always flattering when SLEs pretend that IEIs are "powerful" because we alone can get them to let their guards down. I don't really think it's true, but it's a lovely myth to credence.