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Do you bore people? surprising.
Thats a shame, you seem like an interesting person to me. I wasn't being sarcastic on that occasion.
I don't really know too much about enneagram theory, so I can't comment on how it could/or couldn't help you connect better or generate more interest in your communications. and er... anyway really interesting post.
I wish you luck. :)
Edit: And in my view, abysmal is a fine word to use to describe oneself.
fwiw, I don't find you boring in the least here on this forum.
Hmmm... okay. Actually I do see sp/so or so/sp for you. On the other hand, maybe you're really sx-first, but just Emily Dickinson-ish ("the soul selects her own society").
Are these people boring?
http://i44.tinypic.com/bwsi0.jpghttp://i43.tinypic.com/ojp9x5.jpg(Daniel Tosh)
http://i42.tinypic.com/ap75nn.jpghttp://i42.tinypic.com/21nnyft.jpg
am I boring?
...ok maybe a little, but I can put on a good show every now and then
sx last is the most independent of all stackings because intimacy takes away from independence.
this thread is an epic fail. I am disappoint. All the information is there, but you're in denial. Join Brian in the realm of the fake sx/sos.
Anyway, good luck trying to act more sxy.
btw what does so/sp have to do with imposing yourself on a group? Surely you don't need to impose anything if you relate to people primarily through your expertise.
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tml#post650152
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tml#post650157
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tml#post650012
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tml#post649974
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...tml#post649323
do I have to go on? Instincts aren't about what you see or what you think, they are about what you do, you can't avoid them. On first glance of your post history (I didn't have to go very deep) the way you interact with people on the board is on a very unimposing, impersonal level. You say you're a very intense person, but all 5s have an intense inner world. You seem satisfied just making little quips here and there, but I'm really not seeing your intensity anywhere on this board. Feel free to start being intense and controversial any time now. That last post was a good start, I think I provoked some Se, but honestly you aren't sx/so. I just can't see it. You show me how you are sx first and maybe I'll believe you. Don't tell me--show me.
The thread on Emily Dickenson is a good example on how you relate to others through your expertise. That is how social 5s operate.
oh yea and being afraid to show it doesn't count. That's no different from any 5.
but then again maybe you aren't a 5? If you can't relate to either so or sp 5s, and sx 5 is a bit of a stretch, then maybe you aren't a 5 at all?