This dude is a clear SLE to me, I've always loved this song (whaddya guys think):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4b-by5e4saI
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This dude is a clear SLE to me, I've always loved this song (whaddya guys think):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4b-by5e4saI
True Love by Pink is about SLE/IEI duality:
In any other quadra such a relationship would be called disfunctional, but in Beta...Quote:
"Sometimes I hate every single stupid word you say,
Sometimes I wanna slap you in your whole face.
There's no one quite like you, you push all my buttons down,
I know life would suck without you.
At the same time I wanna hug you, I wanna wrap my hands around your neck.
You're an asshole but I love you, and you make me so mad I ask myself
Why I'm still here, or where could I go? You're the only love I've ever known, but I hate you, I really hate you, so much I think it must be...
True love true love...."
Huh... seems like, sometimes. :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by consentingadult
Dysfunctional is mentally and emotionally exhausting though and most SLE relationships I have had were healthy but...
My experience with SLE-Se friends and exes over the years is more like this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4bsIzsDNLs
Se seems more playful, maybe.
Pink is SEE, not SLE, and the tune is about a dysfunctional relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by consentingadult
Radiohead is not Beta either. (alpha - delta)Quote:
Originally Posted by suedehead
No she definitively is NOT SEE!! Period.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ananke
This song is pretty old but I think it captures the idea of "dysfunction" that people associate with SLE-IEI, better than songs that are too literal and wordy, like Pink's
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CeTyIWiBc4
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Originally Posted by Ananke
I want Pink for my Activity Partner, pLeazzzzzzzzz.
She doesn't make my Fi-radar go off.
Just enjoy her without needing her to be a specific type. :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by Iris
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eocCPDxKq1oQuote:
Originally Posted by Starfall
Think this is the better pink song for SLE/IEI duality.
Also I think you've rose-colored glasses that relationship a bit...(given what we've heard here) ^_^
Why you do that??? You didn't even read my post, did you? :P I posted this song in this thread. Weird when that happens. I thought you were just mocking me when you did it before but you don't even notice. FU I am not reading your posts anymore either. :lol:
Well, I thought that is how all friendships started?
As a sidenote, Mercutio and Lzzy Hale are like energy twins separated at birth. :D Their mannerisms are very similar, hand gestures and facial expressions. She is the female version of Merc. :whistle:Quote:
Originally Posted by mercutio
I relate to pretty much everything you say here. Half my exes are on my FB and some of us still end our conversations with, "love you". I don't say it first though because I am always trying to be sensitive to them, and whatever relationship they are currently in or feelings they still have, but since I still feel love (not in love) for them I have no problems saying it back. Most of them are musicians playing in bands and they invite me to their shows a lot but I avoid that because it usually leads to some kind of trouble.Quote:
Originally Posted by Starfall
Emails, pm and phone calls are fine. I always tell new relationships up front that I am friends with exes and if they can't handle it then they know to get out before they get in too deep. I do not let my exes interfere in current relationships though, so I do keep a certain psychological distance. Sometimes they just want to check up on me and see how I am doing. I don't get any sense of jealousy from them usually but they have joked around and told me to ditch other boyfriends and come back to them. It is all light-hearted. I try to leave relationships on good terms. I never like to burn my bridges and I have had exes help me out in many situations later because I left it on good terms.
I don't think it is specific to duality but may be specific to certain personality types who are sensitive to other people's feelings and don't like to have bad vibes with others.
I don't know what people type her but this song seems fitting.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Urdlvw0SSEc
Everything by this band, just watch the music video and you can see SLE IEI in action:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tdCu8uXQ7k
That was so much fun! Thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by RedMarquee
Amazing. I watched them for three days straight. Beautiful.Quote:
Originally Posted by RedMarquee
not exactly duality but i love this song and it also screams SLE to me:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k43XjuhInkU
My girl likes to party all the time. Party all the time. Party all the tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmeee.
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Originally Posted by RedMarquee
I don't see it at all. Is the dude SLE?
Holy shit. At best I was expecting some decent songs from this thread, but this hits the nail on the fucking head.Quote:
Originally Posted by RedMarquee
The guy is SLE and the girl is an IEI.Quote:
Originally Posted by blood moon
Omg ... I fffffloved that July Talk vid - Toronto, Canada represent! Woo. I'm gonna be seeing them soon actually. I never knew they could be a dual pair.. but it's adorable and makes me want my own :(
Every song is an SLE/IEI duality song to me ;_;
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ElORM9O-0U
IEI guy, SLE girl. Or it honestly could apply to any Ixxx male and Exxx female pair.
I just wanted to say I saw them live last weekend and they are literally the EPITOME of sexual chemistry and COOL. Wow. I strive for a relationship like that. Apparently they have been dating for a long time.Quote:
Originally Posted by RedMarquee
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Originally Posted by RedMarquee
Yeah, it's cuz the dude is LSI and Leah Fay is SEI. The song is actually about benefit relationship :/ It's not doing much for me either, though the LSI dude has one sexy grungy voice.Quote:
Originally Posted by maithili
What was interesting in that video is how rounded and conserved Leah was with her dancing, so different from IEIs, especially Fe subtypes who show greater degrees of freedom in how they go about the dance floor and demonstrate some 'edgier' moves.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93HWMspjxqI
SLE aggressor female + IEI victim male
The video also incorporates the concept of "duality," represented by the yin and yang.
I doubt Leah is SEI.. I honestly think they're duals, EIE + LSI or SLE + IEI.. they are the most Beta band I've heard in a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by silke
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Originally Posted by Pink
This was cute!! I actually do agree that even with such snippets it does look like SLE and IEI.. IEI males are so adorbs haha..
Lana Del Rey - Fe type
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Originally Posted by Sol
Maybe I am misunderstanding you use of "-"?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sol
it's a dash, not minusQuote:
Originally Posted by Aylen
Hahah man I don't get it with her, yet she's the one of the benchmark female SLE (supposedly) celebrities referenced on this forum a lot. I dunno like.. I see how it's typical Se behaviour and whatnot but I don't get a vibe of duality or mirror with her. I also think her husband is not IEI.. he seems pretty lacking in Fe in that video, and I believe I remember some interviews of him seeming Ixxp for sure, but maybe SLI. Then again, I've never understood Madonna as SLE either. I guess the obvious "masculinity" they exude turns me off .. I would like to see some feminine SLE examples.Quote:
Originally Posted by limping bird
I can see this as well, .. most definitely just BETA :) I've seen them live.. freakin' amazingQuote:
Originally Posted by limping bird
I think it is common but it's more a unhealthy expression of these traits.Quote:
Originally Posted by Starfall
Hurting by words is not Ni specific. All types may do it. Fe types do it more often. N types may do it with more fantasy. Nothing special.Quote:
Originally Posted by Starfall
Taylor Momsen, maybe Amanda Seyfried? But I type purely by VI because I can't watch interviews and anyway, show businessQuote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettLux