Using your role to help your dual
First of all, according to Grigori Reinin anger is related to interruption of the base function (ie. pressure on the 7th). For example: An ENTp comes home late to his ISFj wife. The ISFj interrogates him on being late and tries to get him to follow some schedule. Intuition is about time, and for an :Ne: dominant the passage of time is something completely variable that he juggles around to suit whatever activity he wants to perform. So the ENTp gets angry for being put in a vice. KABLAMO!!! Conflict relations.
OK with that stuff out of the way, according to Viktor DarkAngelFireWolf69, actually projecting your anger outwards (ie. using it for some purpose) is related to :Fe:.
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Strengthening function
:Fe: forms demonstrative-artistic behavior.
Corresponds to primary domination - through emotional pressure, the skill to inspire or
frighten. Primary domination in animals is connected to the bright colorings, cries, expressive mimicry and gestures.
Now, in some ESTj descriptions they mention that ESTjs get angry (ie. use their role) in order to knock out others' negative emotions and passivate the emotional environment around them; bring it under their control. This helps their INFj dual, who can't operate well in environments with lots of "redundant" emotionality.
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Originally Posted by The Description
3. "Rage is a mighty god of the strong". He tends to take other people out of the condition of complacency. He does not speak much about what is good, considers it self-evident. With his grumbling emotions he strives to extinguish emotions of others. He believes that redundant emotions tire people, and this is absolutely true if applied to his dual (The Humanist). During a conversation he pressures his interlocutor, even tries to intimidate him, but if people do not fear him, he becomes courteous and polite. Fury is his line of defense in a situation of emergency in which he feels otherwise helpless. The aim of his fury is to mobilize his partner, and when this is achieved, he calms down.
So my question is has anyone experienced someone using the role to help out the dual? Not just in terms of ESTj-INFj relations but for all types.