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You make it sound like it's a bad thing haha
Anyway based on the information so far, I don't think you are SeFi (ESFp). You seemed like alpha-SF on the video.
I'm honestly not trying to offend you, it's just the description that I read came off as though an INTp would be both mean and somewhat boring.
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When interacting with others they may be very active, pushy and sometimes even aggressive. They often do not obey the norms of politeness and may sometime be rough and vulgar, however this behaviour usually does not last a long time.
When INTps speak publicly they habitually adopt a slow, monotone speech pattern. This may have a sleep inducing hypnotic effect on their audience.
INTps are very sceptical to others who are undertaking new beginnings. They are able to pour cold water on others burning enthusiasm. They try to keep others from being passionate as they consider strong emotions to be harmful.
from socionics.com
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On meeting your dual: this is where socionics comes in really handy. Once you figure out how to type people effectively, you'll be able to pick your dual out of a crowd without much trouble. You just have to know what you're looking for.
This is something that I very much look forward to doing. I still have to figure out my type first though, and I'm having a pretty difficult time.
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Pretty sure you're ESE. I am hoping you are ESE, because I don't want a dual who is a fucking snob. I like how you refer to 'background people' as some sort of lower class. For many years in highschool I was convinced the extraverts around me were mentally retarded. They seemed interested in boring, meaningless shit, and unable to hold anything in their memory beyond about 4 or 5 seconds. This made communicating with them nearly impossible. Introvert / Extravert thing I guess. Anyway please fuck off
I've honestly have never been called a "fucking snob" before. When I mentioned "background people" I meant it to clarify that they aren't the ones in the "spotlight." I, in no way, shape or form, was trying to claim for them to be in a lower class then myself, you are just twisting my words around.
I can assure you that I am an extravert but my interests vary from photography to physics to dance. I was a mega-nerd in high school and friends with many introverted people.
I hope you got your facts straight and hope that you take a chill pill.
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ESE>SEE. Regarding dating your dual: just find someone with lots of money, dual or not, whatever.
Wow, you sound like my mother. ha. I actually don't care about money. I'd pick happiness over money any day.
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Preferably a prostitute.
Oh I thought you were talking to me. Nevermind.
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Huh, that's funny, I heard her say that she's not really attracted to "background people" but still tries to help them fit in and is nice to them. That doesn't sound very snobbish to me. What sounds snobbish to me is dismissing an entire group of people as "mentally retarded" and viewing one's self as inherently superior to them.
But I must just be misunderstanding the meaning of the word. Surely such an intelligent person capable of holding things in his memory for more than 4 or 5 seconds would not make such an error. I should probably go look up the meaning of the word.
Thank you!
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I know someone who reminds me of you a lot who I typed SEI. She likes to have a lot of friends and include people, but she seems more thankful when someone new makes the effort to approach her and talk and begin making friends with her. The whole "include everyone" thing is good by her even though she's not exactly one to constantly assure it. When more people are part is when introductions get made by the extroverts, and she likes being part of the discussion and has a hard time thinking up things to socialize about when there is no bouncing off people in the group. She's mainly inclined to one on one discussion however.
She would probably call herself an extrovert, but in this theory, many Fe things blow right past her. The 2nd function is not always the most prominent.
Well your friend does sound a lot like me. I do want to include everyone, but if someone were to approach me then I usually just feel better. It's easier and nice.
Your last little paragraph confused me. I'm still pretty new to all of this.