What are INTJ's doing for Valentines?
Hello,
I am an INTJ. And yes, I did send my 'friend' a valentine. It was an ecard that was semi-serious in tone--My message in the ecard was a humorous poem.
What's weird is that this is probably the first valentine I have given since my freshmen year of h.s...I was the same shy, socialially inept nerd as I am now...Back then, I gave my love interest a card and a little box of chocolates...THAT WAS A MISTAKE!....She smiled sweetly, then laughed in my face...OUCH!.....It got around campus....How embarassing. But what one does for love....
It's funny that it has taken me twelve years to get over that!
I hope my 'friend' will appreciate the ecard. Now, I am sure that I am not even on her mind...But again, what one does for love!
What are other INTJ's doing?
Will you be going out on a date? Will you be emailing an ecard to your love interest? Or will be at home playing Halo with someone on the otherside of the globe?
Just curious.......
Joe
Re: What are INTJ's doing for Valentines?
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Originally Posted by joegeo2006
Hello,
I am an INTJ. And yes, I did send my 'friend' a valentine. It was an ecard that was semi-serious in tone--My message in the ecard was a humorous poem.
What's weird is that this is probably the first valentine I have given since my freshmen year of h.s...I was the same shy, socialially inept nerd as I am now...Back then, I gave my love interest a card and a little box of chocolates...THAT WAS A MISTAKE!....She smiled sweetly, then laughed in my face...OUCH!.....It got around campus....How embarassing. But what one does for love....
It's funny that it has taken me twelve years to get over that!
I hope my 'friend' will appreciate the ecard. Now, I am sure that I am not even on her mind...But again, what one does for love!
What are other INTJ's doing?
Will you be going out on a date? Will you be emailing an ecard to your love interest? Or will be at home playing Halo with someone on the otherside of the globe?
Just curious.......
Joe
i gave someone i like a valentine, silk flower (scented with chocolate), a toy with hug me on it, and some chocolates. stuck it on her table at break, rushing ahead of her, everyone saw it. being all female, they all wanted to know.
though i have been giving her stuff for a while. she came over to thank me, then asked point blank - why did i give her that? i really though she knew, and i was totally not ready for that question. i said "i don't know", but gave eye contact, and she wasn't convinced of the answer near as i can tell. as she kept looking even though turning her head.
i'm almost certain i had a hard blush going (blush, not the other thing, the blood went to my head, anyway...) i felt real warm, not sure what a blush feels like. but if it was there, she saw it, i can keep a poker face, but not like that. hopefully she read it right.
though if she does like me, and if she is the one that asks me out, i don't have any idea what to tell her, as i have very little experience dealing with this stuff. my mind just went totally blank. i wish i could just flip my dream self with the present self, i talk more there.
Re: What are INTJ's doing for Valentines?
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Originally Posted by mike_INTJ
i wish i could just flip my dream self with the present self, i talk more there.
Whooa! You have a dream self too? :D I talk more as my dream self as well! In fact, I do some pretty crazy shit as my dream self. Sometimes it makes me laugh out loud or have a big grin. I wonder what other people think when this happens (it must seem really spontaneous to them). I love my dream-self.