:Fe: is a colander. :Fi: is a cup. Their size depends on the strength of the functions.
Large: 1, 8
Moderate: 2, 7
Small: 3, 6
Tiny: 4, 5
The L that you value is above the other one. For an ESTj, a tiny cup is over a small colander. Emotions are poured in. If the cup overflows, it spills into the colander. The emotions then shoot out the sides, and everyone sees them. For an ESFj, a large colander is over a moderate cup. The emotions are poured in. Most shoot out the sides of the collander and everyone sees them. Some go through the bottom and into the cup. For an ISTp, a small cup is over a tiny colander. The emotions are poured in. The cup overflows, and the colander catches some and makes it visible. But some emotions are just lost because the cup's full and they miss the colander. Your positioning is the same as that of your business.
So what do you think?

