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But working on the assumption I am correctly typed as an introvert, I'd have to disagree with many of the descriptions of introversion. OK, sure, this is also influenced by being an assertive enneagram type (E8). I have no problem going up and introducing myself to people. If I need to interject in a conversation, I can do so easily. I don't need 'help' in social situations to feel comfortable. With regards to all of the surface, observable traits I don't think I would appear to be 'introverted'. This is partly due to my upbringing and my chosen field. My ESE-Fe mother has always emphasised being a strong, assertive woman to me, that I *must* make the effort in social situations. I've grown up watching her act in her Fe-base way around other people, and inevitably have tried to mimic some of that.
Being Ij for me is rather about where my energy is focused. I'm very self-contained. I like other people, I like being around people, but I don't need other people in any way to define myself. Unefille has mentioned that when she's alone for long periods of time, she sort of floats apart a little, and needs other people around to sort of delineate herself. My self 'awareness' and identity comes entirely internally. But yeah, I'm content being by myself. Being sociable is a choice, not an imperative.