Recomendations for INFj (DarkAngelFireWolf69)
Hello again good people.
After translating ENFp male portrait which was not so enjoyable (partly due to it being a long text but mostly, in my personal opinion, due to it being over the top and on some parts incorrect, full of stereotypes) I decided to pick other articles which would be more fun to translate for myself. Maybe at some point ill get back to the male/female portraits but that's unlikely and possible only if others will really want them.
So here it goes, enjoy fellow INFj's (your awesome). Hope you will like it, if the feedback on the content will be positive I'll translate these articles for other delta types also.
Also please point out mistakes or parts where it is unclear what is said (feel free to change the text altogether to make it more readable). I'm unsure of the spelling of a few words (marked with sp?) so check those also. Thank you!
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Humanist (Dostoyevsky, INFJ)
A fundamental understanding of people and human interrelations is your strong side. You are interested in motives of behavior, inner qualities, human relationships which you observe for extended period of time. The longer this study continues, the better you assess the character of the person: who he really is, not how he presents himself.
You strive for warm, friendly relations between people, can't stand roughness and violence. That's where your humanitarian side manifests itself, for this you are valued and respected by people around you. Your knowledge of people and life experience will always help you to find the right place in the collective. Your other advantage, for which you deserve people gratitude, - sincere sensitivity, kindness and attentiveness to people. Your compassion towards them you try to show in action and not only in words. You help everyone who actually needs your help sparing no efforts and time.
Final goal of your activity - creation of calm, harmonious, conflict-free environment in which everyone can reveal his abilities. You are best at comforting and reconciling. Pardoning people their negative behavior and transgressions. You act on their conscience forcing them to think on moral bases of our life. Problem which troubles you is lack of resolution and initiative, inability to demand in strong-willed manner. A certain level of shyness inherent for your character adds to the issue. You are very pedantic, afraid to appear obtrusive which would inevitably focus attention on yourself.
You are a modest person, non-aggressive. After accepting the challenge you do not choose to react actively, preferring to conceal your offence. You are even uncomfortable to accept defence from someone else. You consider that the person who offended you must realize it himself and repent. If he is not doing that you avoid contact with him, punishing him with silence. It is recommended for you to develop self-protection: to directly voice your concern for indiscretion and dishonesty, without showing compassion to people who don't have the ability to correct themselves or repent, not giving the option to use you in someones selfish goals. Learn to say "No" at the right moment. Be a little less compassionate to outside people and more focused on people close to you.
Another of your problems is a very thorough study of the details on any matter which causes slowness and emotionlessness (sp?). Getting stuck in details you hardly find the time for leisure in the nature or in the company of friends, which can negatively affect your health. You thoroughly and deeply analyze everything that affects you or those familiar to you. The results of an objective analysis like this often are uncomforting, and due to that, you sometimes experience deep feelings of sorrow and pessimism. You excessively suppress everything that exceeds the scope of decency, morals and spirituality.
Don't act on your pity so you won't blame yourself for not acting with honesty and justice. Remember that true justice does not compromise with conscience.
Increase the tempo of work, concentrate so your attention would slide past trivialities, stopping only on the important part, essential. Try speed-reading(not sure how it is in English, the skill to read fast) - this will help you see the big picture of happenings or events. Analyze the facts focusing not on refinement but on generalization. Knowledge of both regularities(not sure if its the right word) will free you from spending power and mental force on aspects of the issue which are non-justified, non-important to others.