Originally Posted by
BulletsAndDoves
Now Ezra, how do you expect people to take your feelings seriously when you yourself act so joke-y all the time? Which is okay, because you are a human being and human beings joke and realize life is just an interesting gesture.
I don't know. I found the best way to handle it when people hurt your feelings is really just to toughen up get over it and live life the way you want to, and whining about it only gives them power because they do.not.care. If they did, they would bend over ass-backwards to correct their mistakes, so don't worry about it. This is basically what every effective therapist has told me btw, just in less harsher ways. I don't know how to make it sound better though, somebody like Diana or Slacker Mom would be better for that. But you're a man, you can take it. Don't expect them to care like you do because they never will, unfortunately. So just move on....it's their loss.
And I am NOT ENFj you dork. People are sometimes surprised when they meet me to realize how masculine and strong I am (and come on don't lie when somebody thinks of an ENFj they think of waif-y Chris Crocker or some zany Tom Cruise actor type you know it) but you can be be both manly and campy still AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. I talk like a guy, and look like a guy and smell like a guy but I like Buffy and Sailor Moon and Charmed. Not 'sports' go figure. I am very masculine but also very submissive and campy...who cares though?
Why would people care about your feelings when you think you can make jokes at me at MY expense and then whine when it's happening to you- you're such a hypocrite. I don't care that you make fun of me btw, because I do it too just calm the mood and to prove to people I'm a good guy that's just here to be loving and make friends.
You make yourself the joke. And again, you are the pot calling the kettle black because you thought you could be chummy with me and make fun of me for being gay when I honestly never gave you actual permission for that. I'm not offended, I was a bit amused- but that's besides the point. You didn't think about how MY feelings might have been effected when you claimed that I wouldn't be able to pound your hole. You reap what you sow, straight boy!