IEI-IEE extinguishment relations (contrary INFp & ENFp)
How come INFp's are the dominant girl in my life lol? My exes have been INFp's, and the only two girls that are my friends are INFp's. They seem to be the only girls that are laid back enough to talk to me and laff with me. I think they are just very kind and social beings.
Very confusing. Turn me into an ESTp and i will be set forever :)
IEI-IEE extinguishment relations (contrary INFp & ENFp)
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I spent my first five months with an IEI during a period when I didn't know anybody and was often listless and depressed. Part of these feelings were the result of our relationship, which I would characterize as "love-hate." On the one hand, I could air my thoughts and feelings and say what I felt around him (that's generally the effect IEIs have on people), and on the other hand, his mannerisms and "everything about him" would suddenly intensely irritate me, and I would feel like physically pushing him away from me and getting him out of my life space.
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I had the best of intentions and wanted to be friendly, upbeat, and genuinely interested, but the same love-hate pattern resurfaced almost immediately, and I left dejected about my inability to change anything.
Since then, I have been drawn to and confounded by similar qualities in other IEIs I have become friends with.
Why does it have to be so hard ?
I feel so helpless.. and sad :(
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