Being fake for the purpose of fitting in
I was wondering. A bunch of guys met together to watch the game and there is one that was a "tag along". We didn't invite him, he came with another friend and he could not shake him off. Naturally we wouldn't dream of inviting him. Well, the tag along is constantly making fake jokes and trying to forcefully "fit in", generally, he is fake because he thinks that in a certain situation a person is suppose to act a certain way and because this is not remotely how he naturally acts he resorts to "acting" and because he has no ability to act this attempt at fakeness is beyond obvious and he just comes off as a loser, a total wannabe. Anyway we are watching and naturally when our team scores, and this is an important game, we all jump and you know, start acting all loud and rowdy. And he is constantly criticizing us for being loud the "Could you keep it down!?!?!" stuff and so on. But at these moments he is not faking it, his irritation is real and he means it. Which makes him appear even more of a loser because on top of trying to destroy the natural atmosphere by being completely fake and a total wannabe he is trying to end everybody's good mood. So I'm wondering ... is he :Fi: dominant? And to the answer to the previous question, why exactly?
Re: Being fake for the purpose of fitting in
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Originally Posted by snegledmaca
Anyway we are watching and naturally when our team scores, and this is an important game, we all jump and you know, start acting all loud and rowdy. And he is constantly criticizing us for being loud the "Could you keep it down!?!?!" stuff and so on. But at these moments he is not faking it, his irritation is real and he means it. Which makes him appear even more of a loser because on top of trying to destroy the natural atmosphere by being completely fake and a total wannabe he is trying to end everybody's good mood.
My guess would be ENTj.