Can someone please explain how this manifests itself in the SLE?
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Can someone please explain how this manifests itself in the SLE?
SLEs don't have Ni hidden agenda.
They have Ni dual-seeking. And Fe hidden agenda.
Ni dual-seeking is manifested in an appreciation for people who help the SLE see "the big picture" and who compensate the SLE's drive to "just act" by warnings and pointing out the best timing for actions.
Okay, cheers. I'll change the topic, because I'm actually more concerned about the SLE's HA.
This is just my understanding of this based on what I've witnessed and my understanding of the theory:
I think ExTps want others to enjoy being around them and have generally positive sentiments towards them. They also don't mind pissing people off, as long as people express their feelings in a forthright manner. They don't understand what they've done that's so bad (or why people take things so personally) when they piss someone off and that person sees it as damaging to their relationship (especially if they hold it against them for a long time). They would much rather the person just bitch at them (or otherwise display their emotions) and get it over with. Consequences for their ethical mistakes should be mostly related to mood, and making up should be as well.
Does that sound about right?
It's certainly made me start to see just why I am Fi PoLR.Quote:
Originally Posted by Joy
Tell me about SLE's and Fe - it's their tertiary function, correct? How do they interpret and deal with Fe, theoretically and in real life?
Sorry - newbie mistake. Still, what does that mean in a practical sense?
Good question.
Ask Kristiina how she uses her Fe, and then glamourama about how she uses hers. I'll say who's hotter.
Theoretically:
In general, seeks people with strong :Fe:, but doesn't want help with it all the time, just sometimes. If he doesn't get help, he can take care of himself in this area for a while, but sometimes he will fail painfully.Quote:
The individual longs for situations where people are having fun, laughing and joking, and feel emotionally free and spontaneous. However, he is generally unable to produce this atmosphere himself and uses other means to create situations where there is a good chance that others will take the emotional initiative and create a fun and emotionally stimulating atmosphere. Failure at such attempts are met with dismay, which the individual either hides or reacts to with frustration and annoyance.
In practice... I dunno, I have never seen someone I knew to be an SLE interact with someone with strong :Fe: in RL.
[QUOTE=Brilliand;343340]Theoretically:
In general, seeks people with strong :Fe:, but doesn't want help with it all the time, just sometimes. If he doesn't get help, he can take care of himself in this area for a while, but sometimes he will fail painfully.
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Another newbie question then (and I thank you in advance for your patience!) - What is an example of a demonstration of strong Fe?
Bump
They just wanna be loved!
Also, they don't tend to hold grudges over minor ... I don't know ... disagreements? :jedi:
They tend to get over things pretty quickly, unless you killed their family ruined their reputation. The latter is the image part of the Fe-Hidden Agenda.
Image is how one looks in the eyes of others.
It's indirectly related to the motivation. If the motivation is "to be loved", an SLE will want to improve their Fe -- and ultimately be proficient in using it -- in order to fulfil this agenda.