INFj-ESTj duality examples and stories (EII-LSE)
This reporter Justin Rowlatt (ESTj) was asked to make reports about trying to cut the CO2 emissions of his family. The beginning of the video has his wife (INFj?) chastising him for going to Jamaica to make some point he could have made at home :P. The report as a whole is a good example of a ESTj at work.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLgH-GkOczw[/youtube]
a real example of LSE-EII duality
i PM'd this to eunice a few days ago and she hasn't responded, so i'll throw it out here:
the best example of an LSE-EII duality in popular culture that i know of is the interaction of jim and claudia from the movie magnolia
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5OOKoVOzxs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJRMfoi6g5U
the latter video is a dramatic interpretation of the most important scene between the two so the characters are different; the only real videos that i could find of that particular scene were in what i think is italian.
that scene comes smack in the middle of the other video (at about 6:20) if you want to watch them chronologically.
basically, claudia is not a hugely typical EII; she has some problems with her life. jim i think is an excellent example of LSE. he's very pragmatic, unemotional, and honest and forthright in most of his advice, and from talking to claudia you can clearly tell his emphasis on interpersonal connection as well as his lack of confidence (Te blundering, if you will) in initiating it. one thing is that his is real Te rather than Se and Ti; his approach to helping claudia is to give her practical solutions rather than try to defend her or motivate her at all costs, which is something that seems apparent from the people you've noted as LSE. his demeanor in helping claudia with her problems is a really good indication of LSE; he demonstrates his value for Fi by acting the part of the extrovert, discussing his own problems with her and offering a "steady" emotional base of support for claudia and continuing to emphasize the instrinsic value and importance of their relationship.
this monologue from the same film seems to depict an LSEs standpoint and lack of confidence in Fi:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg4JwEgHQZ8&feature=related