LII-ILE mirror relations (INTj and ENTp)
It seems ENTps and INTjs relate better to eachother than most types relate to either, at least from my observation. My relationship with my INTj seems VERY odd to most people, but I cannot imagine either of us doing well in a "normal" relationship or with a "normal" person.
On the other hand, because we both have a few of the same characteristics, there are things that simply do not get attended to in our home and whatnot. I also think we encourage eachother's T a little bit too much... you should hear some of the conversations we have! Most people would be quite offended and think both of us very cold.
I'm looking for comments from people who have been in this relationship or have known people who have.
ENTp and INTj mirror relationship
I am a pretty wrecked entp. Lacking self-confidence, excessively shy and extremely evasive when it comes to emotions (you can say emotionally weak). I decided I am an entp because I have an overactive :Ne: function. I don't quite know how to express my emotions and I can get really evasive when it comes to expressing my emotions. I need to get positive responses, but the intj seems really cold sometimes. He does show that he cares for me. After all my mixed signals and possiblly unintentional hurts, he still sees me as a friend. And our conversations aren't getting anywhere. I don't ask personal questions and he's a private person. But, I really like him... a lot! I really hope that he can be my confidant, my best friend. I am really drawn to him but I dare not tell him lest I be rejected. This is not even a potential romantic relationship, we are just looking into potential pure friendship. Like I said, I am pretty screwed up.
With the situation explained. I have the following questions that I hope someone can help me with.
1) Do I sound like just some entp with a real poorly developed feeling functions?
2) Am I safe to assume that an intj who cares for my well-being sees me as a friend?
3) And finally, any idea how I can pull myself up?