EIE/ENFj appearance: style and attractive features

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Whoa, you have a "close istp friend" ?!?! Kudos!

And to UDP: well, if I were in college, I would say I would gravitate to those things that seem to have a deep, underlying, almost epic "cause" behind them. Clubs and such if you will, that say they can "change" things. I would even be a leader of one.

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yeah its not that weird believe it or not...We do get along pretty well if I stay calm around her and not getting emotinal...At times I thought she had Fe and my friends and I thought she was ISFp for a while but ISTp is what she fit best. She never has any emotion on her face which was the most relevant thing to her.

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Originally Posted by meatburger

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Whoa, you have a "close istp friend" ?!?! Kudos!

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Sounds Fishy to me.

I like ENFj's i find them very charming. I often feel like its a competition of seduction between us thats just fun and games.

I still think Fergie is an ENFj but everyone else seemed to think shes an ESTp. I just think this because shes almost a replica in looks and actions to my old team leader. I must admit i dont know any ESTp girls tho.

http://styletraxx.com/Fergie.jpg

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So THIS is why I've always adored Fergie. Yes, she's always seemed Beta to me.. I am not sure about the ENFj thing though.

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Originally Posted by FDG

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Originally Posted by thehotelambush

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# process initiation;
# of the brake;
# mobility brain processes (NP).

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What the heck does that mean? :lol:

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speed of starting things,
of stopping in the middle
and to switch activity

just imagine how the conversation flows (very badly) between types that strongly differ in those charateristics

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Yeah, but how would they test that?

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Originally Posted by thehotelambush

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Originally Posted by FDG

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Originally Posted by thehotelambush

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# process initiation;
# of the brake;
# mobility brain processes (NP).

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What the heck does that mean? :lol:

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speed of starting things,
of stopping in the middle
and to switch activity

just imagine how the conversation flows (very badly) between types that strongly differ in those charateristics

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Yeah, but how would they test that?

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no clue!

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Originally Posted by onetreehilluver

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Whoa, you have a "close istp friend" ?!?! Kudos!

And to UDP: well, if I were in college, I would say I would gravitate to those things that seem to have a deep, underlying, almost epic "cause" behind them. Clubs and such if you will, that say they can "change" things. I would even be a leader of one.

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yeah its not that weird believe it or not...We do get along pretty well if I stay calm around her and not getting emotinal...At times I thought she had Fe and my friends and I thought she was ISFp for a while but ISTp is what she fit best. She never has any emotion on her face which was the most relevant thing to her.

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um i had friends istps for long period but it endend by itself, at some point it was dissolving..... also i cant be real friend with soeone i need to kepp distance and when i meet him i need to be not myself or just work hard to not to do "wrong" thigs for them, they seems even more.... so i ok with looking on them from aside and just being good-wishing towards fully accept their way they choose to do things, as long in not really interferewith me. I learned here - more distance - more happier both...., or another way is to meet istps only with their duals in companies being aside from all delta massing. just smile and have some convos with ENFps.....
(ow some offtopic)

i am male so i wont post any pictures to show how "attractable" i am :)

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

So THIS is why I've always adored Fergie. Yes, she's always seemed Beta to me.. I am not sure about the ENFj thing though.

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You probably adore Fergie because you are focus on superficial and aesthetic things more likely.

That wasn't mean't to be rude, it's just an observation...

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Originally Posted by Sorc

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Originally Posted by onetreehilluver

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Whoa, you have a "close istp friend" ?!?! Kudos!

And to UDP: well, if I were in college, I would say I would gravitate to those things that seem to have a deep, underlying, almost epic "cause" behind them. Clubs and such if you will, that say they can "change" things. I would even be a leader of one.

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yeah its not that weird believe it or not...We do get along pretty well if I stay calm around her and not getting emotinal...At times I thought she had Fe and my friends and I thought she was ISFp for a while but ISTp is what she fit best. She never has any emotion on her face which was the most relevant thing to her.

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um i had friends istps for long period but it endend by itself, at some point it was dissolving..... also i cant be real friend with soeone i need to kepp distance and when i meet him i need to be not myself or just work hard to not to do "wrong" thigs for them, they seems even more.... so i ok with looking on them from aside and just being good-wishing towards fully accept their way they choose to do things, as long in not really interferewith me. I learned here - more distance - more happier both...., or another way is to meet istps only with their duals in companies being aside from all delta massing. just smile and have some convos with ENFps.....
(ow some offtopic)

i am male so i wont post any pictures to show how "attractable" i am :)

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haha Sorc I'm sure ur pretty good looking though...

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Originally Posted by Khamelion

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

So THIS is why I've always adored Fergie. Yes, she's always seemed Beta to me.. I am not sure about the ENFj thing though.

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You probably adore Fergie because you are focus on superficial and aesthetic things more likely.

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Umm.. okay. What makes you say that anyway? What do I focus on that is so superficial and aesthetic?

I don't usually like celebrities.. but there are some that just appeal to me for a random reason, that being of their PERSONALITY. I find her's cute and all. What does that have to do with anything. :?

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

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Originally Posted by Khamelion

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

So THIS is why I've always adored Fergie. Yes, she's always seemed Beta to me.. I am not sure about the ENFj thing though.

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You probably adore Fergie because you are focus on superficial and aesthetic things more likely.

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Umm.. okay. What makes you say that anyway? What do I focus on that is so superficial and aesthetic?

I don't usually like celebrities.. but there are some that just appeal to me for a random reason, that being of their PERSONALITY. I find her's cute and all. What does that have to do with anything. :?

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I'm not sure, I'm going off how you express yourself on the forum. The likes and dislikes you have shared, etc...

I suppose another reason is because I've seen you comment about celebrities a lot, which makes me think you just say you don't like them so as not to appear to be liking them...but you really do sort of follow them in the media. Maybe not actively but you pay some attention to those who are slightly entrancing. Like Fergie...

You seem very focused on how you dress, clothes you wear and make, making sure people know you made your clothes and have good style.

For some reason your opinion on having children comes off superficial to me, although I can't argue about it because I don't know why I get that feeliing.

And I was also assuming you mean't you also liked her music, which is of a superficial, fun and flighty sort. I like the song Fergalicious, and I think there is another I like too. I think I like the sexual parts of it though, maybe the Se? I unno.

And lastly...I get a depthless feel from most posts you make...(I'm one to talk heheheheh but I think that is due to lack of interest or able to relate entirely. I have a hard time conversating if I can't relate...thats how I keep things rolling usually...and I try not to pretend like I understand the whole of socionics...)

Khamelion, your posts in this thread are terrific IMO.

Kelly's post reminds me about your comments in regard to "going to see Harry Potter"

:( This actually made me a bit sad.

I'm sorry if I come across as shallow. I think it is because I am very highly focused on relationships, looking good in order to attract said relationships and function in the outside world.. Being attractive to others is a big priority of mine, to be perfectly honest. Appearances do mean a lot to me, shallow as that may sound, but it's the truth. I sound like a total Enneagram 3w4 when I talk about this kinda stuff.

I like to think I do have depth though. I am a little crazy on these forums and generally in life, I have to admit I can come off the same way because I enjoy parties and being entertained by "trivial" things maybe. I have other passions and stuff that I don't really share on this forum and I would consider myself to not be entirely without depth. Bah, whatever.

I am not sure why I am being so touchy about this. It just hurts. :?

Oh, and yes, some of her songs I do like because they're so catchy, I have a soft spot for her. Most of the music I listen to is far from what is mainstream. But really, I am not so media-aware as you are making me out to be? This is just confusing.

Your a little on the younger side Scarlett? I think as you get older you become less superficial as you learn not to care about what others think as much and how hot you are etc etc.

I like Fergie too for some odd reason. I actually dont find her that physically attractive but i like how her songs are all about herself. Fergaliscious and Galmourous etc. Its kind of refreshing that she seems to love herself i dunno why. I agree shes a beta tho i would be certian of that.

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Originally Posted by meatburger

Your a little on the younger side Scarlett? I think as you get older you become less superficial as you learn not to care about what others think as much and how hot you are etc etc.

I like Fergie too for some odd reason. I actually dont find her that physically attractive but i like how her songs are all about herself. Fergaliscious and Galmourous etc. Its kind of refreshing that she seems to love herself i dunno why. I agree shes a beta tho i would be certian of that.

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I like people that love themselves. It is refreshing, I agree. I can't stand people who are constantly down in the dumps and moping about this and that.

Well, I'm 17. How old are you?

:P

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

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Originally Posted by meatburger

Your a little on the younger side Scarlett? I think as you get older you become less superficial as you learn not to care about what others think as much and how hot you are etc etc.

I like Fergie too for some odd reason. I actually dont find her that physically attractive but i like how her songs are all about herself. Fergaliscious and Galmourous etc. Its kind of refreshing that she seems to love herself i dunno why. I agree shes a beta tho i would be certian of that.

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I like people that love themselves. It is refreshing, I agree. I can't stand people who are constantly down in the dumps and moping about this and that.

Well, I'm 17. How old are you?

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24 :P

I have changed a shit load from when i was 17 thats for sure as have all of my old school mates. I see them in the city now and total wankers have turned into decent people. Still i hope i never grow up entirely :D

@everybody what's with the negative waves man???

leave ScarletLux alone... she's got good taste in music and is a cool and interresting person. I don't get where this superficial thing is coming from. So she likes clothes and looks and all that jaz and likes talking about it all... so the fuck what? There's worse things in life to focus on.

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Originally Posted by meatburger

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

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Originally Posted by meatburger

Your a little on the younger side Scarlett? I think as you get older you become less superficial as you learn not to care about what others think as much and how hot you are etc etc.

I like Fergie too for some odd reason. I actually dont find her that physically attractive but i like how her songs are all about herself. Fergaliscious and Galmourous etc. Its kind of refreshing that she seems to love herself i dunno why. I agree shes a beta tho i would be certian of that.

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I like people that love themselves. It is refreshing, I agree. I can't stand people who are constantly down in the dumps and moping about this and that.

Well, I'm 17. How old are you?

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24 :P

I have changed a shit load from when i was 17 thats for sure as have all of my old school mates. I see them in the city now and total wankers have turned into decent people. Still i hope i never grow up entirely :D

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Haha, love how this can be taken as me being a "total wanker" :lol:

But yeah, wow, I never thought you were 24.. you come off as being quite young

Thanks bionicgoat! Love the ISFp peacemaking thing you got going on haha.

Oh and I suppose this forum might attract more introverts.. but I think we got a good share of extroverts too. We're all nerds for posting so much :lol: A few people think I'm just overly obsessed with this personality stuff but some others are getting really interested in it as well.

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

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Originally Posted by meatburger

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

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Originally Posted by meatburger

Your a little on the younger side Scarlett? I think as you get older you become less superficial as you learn not to care about what others think as much and how hot you are etc etc.

I like Fergie too for some odd reason. I actually dont find her that physically attractive but i like how her songs are all about herself. Fergaliscious and Galmourous etc. Its kind of refreshing that she seems to love herself i dunno why. I agree shes a beta tho i would be certian of that.

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I like people that love themselves. It is refreshing, I agree. I can't stand people who are constantly down in the dumps and moping about this and that.

Well, I'm 17. How old are you?

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24 :P

I have changed a shit load from when i was 17 thats for sure as have all of my old school mates. I see them in the city now and total wankers have turned into decent people. Still i hope i never grow up entirely :D

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Haha, love how this can be taken as me being a "total wanker" :lol:

But yeah, wow, I never thought you were 24.. you come off as being quite young

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The reverse has also happened aswell. People who i used to think as cool are not that cool anymore.

Lol yeah. I wasn't trying to annoy her i was trying to make her feel better. at 17 your image is still solidifying and so are the images of everyone else so its pretty normal. Well i am an ENFp lol so we probablly do come across as young. Me on the forum and me in reality are starkly different though. Ive dated a woman who was 30 and i am a "mature delta" remember :P

Anyways back to ENFj's.

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Originally Posted by Bionicgoat

@everybody what's with the negative waves man???

leave ScarletLux alone... she's got good taste in music and is a cool and interresting person. I don't get where this superficial thing is coming from. So she likes clothes and looks and all that jaz and likes talking about it all... so the fuck what? There's worse things in life to focus on.

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OMG STFU bionic!

I said in the beginning that it wasn't meant to be an attack, and its just how I've been percieving her over time. Jesus Christ. The peace did not need to be kept in this situation, and I didn't need to be made out to look the bad guy. Injustice.

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Originally Posted by Scarlett

This actually made me a bit sad.

I'm sorry if I come across as shallow. I think it is because I am very highly focused on relationships, looking good in order to attract said relationships and function in the outside world.. Being attractive to others is a big priority of mine, to be perfectly honest. Appearances do mean a lot to me, shallow as that may sound, but it's the truth. I sound like a total Enneagram 3w4 when I talk about this kinda stuff.

I like to think I do have depth though. I am a little crazy on these forums and generally in life, I have to admit I can come off the same way because I enjoy parties and being entertained by "trivial" things maybe. I have other passions and stuff that I don't really share on this forum and I would consider myself to not be entirely without depth. Bah, whatever.

I am not sure why I am being so touchy about this. It just hurts.

Oh, and yes, some of her songs I do like because they're so catchy, I have a soft spot for her. Most of the music I listen to is far from what is mainstream. But really, I am not so media-aware as you are making me out to be? This is just confusing.

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I can believe that you are not really superficial in the negative sort of way that people seem to think I am accusing you of being. I understand 100% of the bolded bit. And can relate to some of it. Of course we don't share our entire selves on the forum. As Gilligan is always saying, I'm only going by what I read. And I havn't commented directly to you or about you yet, so I did because I knew you'd react and that way we'd clear the air. Now everything is nice and happy again.

If you say you arn't media aware, who am I to not believe you? I have no idea what you pay attention to concerning the media besides the side comments made here and there around the forum...which I can't even produce proof of so it might as well just be dropped.

I should have known better than to call a beta NF superficial :lol:

Don't feel sad.

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Originally Posted by UDP

Kelly's post reminds me about your comments in regard to "going to see Harry Potter"

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Eh?

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Originally Posted by Megan

Khamelion, your posts in this thread are terrific IMO.

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Oooo? Glad you think so

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Originally Posted by Khamelion

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Originally Posted by Bionicgoat

@everybody what's with the negative waves man???

leave ScarletLux alone... she's got good taste in music and is a cool and interresting person. I don't get where this superficial thing is coming from. So she likes clothes and looks and all that jaz and likes talking about it all... so the fuck what? There's worse things in life to focus on.

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OMG STFU bionic!

I said in the beginning that it wasn't meant to be an attack, and its just how I've been percieving her over time. Jesus Christ. The peace did not need to be kept in this situation, and I didn't need to be made out to look the bad guy. Injustice!!!

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:P :lol:

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Originally Posted by Bionicgoat

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Originally Posted by Khamelion

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Originally Posted by Bionicgoat

@everybody what's with the negative waves man???

leave ScarletLux alone... she's got good taste in music and is a cool and interresting person. I don't get where this superficial thing is coming from. So she likes clothes and looks and all that jaz and likes talking about it all... so the fuck what? There's worse things in life to focus on.

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OMG STFU bionic!

I said in the beginning that it wasn't meant to be an attack, and its just how I've been percieving her over time. Jesus Christ. The peace did not need to be kept in this situation, and I didn't need to be made out to look the bad guy. Injustice.

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:P

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LoL sorry, you bring out aggresive statements from me >.<

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Originally Posted by Bionicgoat

@everybody what's with the negative waves man???

leave ScarletLux alone... she's got good taste in music and is a cool and interresting person. I don't get where this superficial thing is coming from. So she likes clothes and looks and all that jaz and likes talking about it all... so the fuck what? There's worse things in life to focus on.

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That is a reasonable post. I do my job, you do yours - everything works in the end.

By the by, I was discreetly referring to ScarlettLux's comment she made about a Harry Potter event, nothing you said, Kelly.

Hahaha UDP, what does that have to do with anything? The whole being aware of media thing?

OK Khamelion (I always think of you as Clover/aurora_faerie) the air is cleared! Yay, *sprinkles confetti in the air*

You said you were going to the premier to laugh at everyone who was dressed up in costumes, right?

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Originally Posted by UDP

You said you were going to the premier to laugh at everyone who was dressed up in costumes, right?

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Yes, but I was joking around a bit. I think it would be funny to see and I would enjoy it too.. I like dressing up as well haha, but not for this.

Some wankers talking about superficiality being superficial. Scarlett is not superficial, she just live in her world, moral codex. She just supposing from others to be similar with same things she is , and thats good, thats not superficiality. Its just form of expression too. It is not superficiality, stop telling that her, and... if you think its something wrong 1st - try to find problem within yourself b4 you starting to criticize young lady.

Not to be foward on any ENFJs here, but I have decided that I am a total sucker for ENFJs.


I'm doomed.

yes, but because you are an idiot not because you like enfjs

lolol. sucker!

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Originally Posted by Sorc

Some wankers talking about superficiality being superficial. Scarlett is not superficial, she just live in her world, moral codex. She just supposing from others to be similar with same things she is , and thats good, thats not superficiality. Its just form of expression too. It is not superficiality, stop telling that her, and... if you think its something wrong 1st - try to find problem within yourself b4 you starting to criticize young lady.

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Can you not read? I even started out by saying it wasn't in any way an attack and had to state it multiple times to get it through to differnt people. READ!

And Scarlett, =D Just call me Kelly, :lol:

So, anymore sexy ENFj's out there?

Haha, okay Kelly.. my real name isn't known .. well it is, to those people that I talk to off the forum like UDP.. oh man, UDP's real name totally caught me by surprise!

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yes, but because you are an idiot not because you like enfjs

lolol. sucker!

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LOL oh come on heath! ENFjs are awesome

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Haha, okay Kelly.. my real name isn't known .. well it is, to those people that I talk to off the forum like UDP.. oh man, UDP's real name totally caught me by surprise!

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The number of humorous possibilities that just occurred to me is mind-crippling.

if you love handbags, yes, enfjs are the shit. i personally have little to do with handbags and even less to say about them.

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Originally Posted by heath

if you love handbags, yes, enfjs are the shit. i personally have little to do with handbags and even less to say about them.

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:( I am sure you would look lovely carrying around a handbag

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Originally Posted by ScarlettLux

Haha, okay Kelly.. my real name isn't known .. well it is, to those people that I talk to off the forum like UDP.. oh man, UDP's real name totally caught me by surprise!

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The number of humorous possibilities that just occurred to me is mind-crippling.

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LOL... I don't get it?

UDP's bizzare name:
-Jesus
-Hamburgler
-O'Doile
-Kelly