Is it :Si:? with :Se: porl? (Excuses, of course)
What holds you back from being how you want to be, from executing and doing things as soundly as you know you can do?
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Is it :Si:? with :Se: porl? (Excuses, of course)
What holds you back from being how you want to be, from executing and doing things as soundly as you know you can do?
Lack of :Se: is conducive to a :Si: environment - I think it's easy to see :Si: as your basic right, and :Se: as an external intrusion trying to hinder you, trampling over your comfort zone.
But having :Si: support from a :Si: Ego type makes :Se: seem more irrelevant - rather than passively stand by while your environment\internal harmony is being destroyed, you and your dual together can take the most efficient path to achieve your goals. So lack of :Si: and a :Se: PoLR are both important - if external :Se: is too much for you, you either have to go and live in a hut by the sea, which is comfortable if that is all you need, or you have to make a joint effort with someone where you can cover each other's weaknesses...(and go to the hut at the weekends :P ).
:Fe: + :Fi: are important too, though - without :Fe: , the enthusiasm and vigour behind your plans may fade away and die. :Fe: in ESFjs gives INTjs support in real-time, giving them the strength to fulfill their future plans. :Fi: acts as the evil twin of :Ti: - it saps your energy and fills you with doubt - when coupled with :Se: , it is all the worse :shock: .
I am working on developing my Si. I will need it for college -- laundry, bedmaking, finance, etc. (unless I'm lucky to get an Si-ego roommate :P).
I do need more Fe in my life though. That would be nice. I feel like work is inundating me with Te at the same time.