The whole core to this issue beneath the smoke and mirrors is some women are freaking out on realization that autists exist when one of them flew off...
I can see the IEE thing a lot more now cuz you sound kind of like a happy & sweet IEE therapist with 4D demonstrative Fe at times but ... not liking...
Maybe I'm just weird, but if I didn't fit a stereotype I've never felt like I was being included in the group. As in, it never felt directed AT me. ...