I think that's a closed-minded perspective of it, not gonna lie. I have known SLEs that don't know Socionics, more commonly than SLEs who do know of...
Idk, I am always the one guiding the relationships in my life. So much so, that it kind of felt weird to simply ask, "so then what do you suggest ?"...
Born on this planet, went to school, grew up, married, had a son, started business, got divorced, always have been interested in how the world works and what I can do with it.