I think many women want men who project an image of confidence, but not so much of being some fucked up criminal. Those guys (fucked up criminals) do...
The words "therapist" and "Dr." are labels, you should ask him to remove them from his door and advertisements. He should also stop referring to you...
I don't think it's fair to count Aster's friend and Shotgun's friend since they weren't officially typed, but while we're at it, he typed my "friend"...