Clarke

A piece of advice for anyone struggling with an oppressor or false dichotomy (being fooled into having 2 choices): Negotiate, or find a way to achieve a third option. Often in a situation, fighting back with raw force is actually useless. The situation might escalate, consuming your own resources. Or perhaps, you'll just be fighting against nothing and draining your own energy.

I guess if you have no choice, you should probably fight back. I would take a defensive stance. Figure out where your standards are, and stick to them instead of going on the offensive. In cases where you have moral conflict, it'll help you, and in other cases it'll prevent you from looking bad to others. I think that revenge isn't necessarily a bad thing. I think that, even better, the threat of it gets your opposition to do what you want, or at least to negotiate.

I would say that you should generally not give in to your oppressor, even if it promises anything ranging from happiness to peace.

I also think that you shouldn't negotiate anything that isn't expendable in some way. Think about the life you want to live and the standards you have, and then give up the resources that aren't necessary for those. The revenge tool could be useful for this.

Generally, if you think that being a certain type would be ideal or would fit what you want to be in life, you're probably that type or something similar to it anyway. It's a bad idea to try to artificially change yourself to be something else. It might seem like it could make you a better person, but you'll probably just become worse and lose competence in your favorite areas until you find a way to get back to normal.

ESI 2w3 xxOAx Phlegmatic xxLV (likely EFLV). Consider whether people talking about their emotions make you bored.

Popular and official-looking MBTI sites like 16personalities might be useful, since the average person is more likely to be exposed to it. Probably ignore MBTI cognitive functions descriptions.

I'm fairly confident in my own Enneagram, and also pretty confident in my own Socionics type. Read my "About Me" if there's any confusion.

If EFLV would work, there might also be a chance for ELVF. That might be a more admirable or interesting person. Someone who doesn't seem to have many weaknesses, and seems like an interesting conversation partner. If ELFV doesn't work, then EVLF or LFEV could work (radiance relations). Consider the dormancy of your own 3rd aspect (maybe over a long period of time).

I'm generally more confident about EFLV than FELV. I also think that out of all of the Attitudinal Psyche choices listed above, EFLV would be the ideal choice.

I'm not confident about my Attitudinal Psyche guesses in general. It relies on assumptions that I've made that aren't necessarily true.

Consider So/Sx or Sp/Sx.