I’m SEE and I always say I’m a candyass. Se leads aren’t really the stereotypical badass where they go around beating everyone up lol. Se aka force isn’t necessarily aggression. It’s direct management of conflicts and having the will power to address the conflicts accordingly (sometimes that involves doing nothing at all, and sometimes you really gotta punch someone cuz they asked for it) but it’s not wanton aggression. It’s mastery over aggression.