The way to a man's heart ... and back
Lyubov Beskova & Elena Udalova
Original article: http://junona.org/modules.php?name=C...howpage&pid=30
See also:
Wikisocion - Romantic & Sexual Behavior of Quadra and Subtypes
Harmonization of Relations in Duality Pairs by V. Meged
Making Duality Work by V. Meged
Erotic Attitudes
Four Quadra
Subtype Descriptions
(Machine translation)
Socionic knowledge gives specific recommendations on how to impress and build relationships with each of the 16 types of men. Sotsionika save you from having to resort to non-scientific method at random in the hope that at least some of your merits and not be impressed by accident scare while your partner.
The material is arranged according to the structure of model A of each type. In fact, we offer reflects the sequence of presentation of the material issues that arise in the process of birth and development of relations. Carefully read all the strategy of "fighting on the ground." Maybe this is the beginning and you will find downright impossible and unthinkable, but, as the great Alexander Suvorov, "is hard to learn, easy in battle."
The first step (forward): "How interesting!"
According sotsionike in unfamiliar surroundings a person activates role function. This means that he is trying to demonstrate certain qualities in others and get their approval. And we are not talking about some random person claims and about specific types of manifestations due to its model of information processing. What exactly representative of each type tends to get approval depends on filling the third position the model A. It's not a secret, and all 16 variants are known in socionics. In life, we see the manifestation of the role function with such regularity that it starts to the imagination! Experience shows that when we first met this step almost inevitable. In an unknown situation is triggered roles, and the positive reaction to it ensures the continuation of the relationship, and the negative can push your new friend. So you have to do just a little attention to certain topics! Support role displays your friend, help him to play with you when meeting his game and you'll see what it will bring remarkable results.
The second step (forward): "I - the girl of your dreams!"
Founder sotsioniki A.Augustinavichiute introduced the concept of the middle dreams (we are talking about the composition of the 5th and 4th functions of model A). It is based on the most cherished and partly unconscious desire of man to receive support in areas where it does not feel confidence. Such support is never left unattended. And the one who had it, no doubt, cause sympathy. This is exactly what you need! How to implement support for the 5th and 4th positions - also not a secret. And what features are there in your vote, tell his model A. As soon as you apply for these functions positive information, your partner immediately begins to feel you trust and instinctive attraction. In fact, most successful dream of a middle embodies the type called in socionics supplementing or Douala. Douala mask will allow you to achieve your goal the shortest route. But in any case, do not be tempted to bite your vote on aspects of the 5th and 4th functions. Negative information sent here, operates extremely damaging. People of all types without exception (and you too) vulnerable and completely exposed to harsh blow to the functions of the middle of dreams. It is unworthy reception.
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