slightly sadistic people and is it type related..? - Page 4

crazedratXII · 03-11-2010, 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by he died with a felafel

there was never any Fe bashing.

Yes there was. Right now you are suffering from false memories. Basically human beings have the capacity to rewrite history in order to suite their fantasy ideals. And they actually do it on a very regular basis. Well, that's what you're doing right now.
I want to make it clear:
No one in this thread is to speak any more about the question.

Also, I would actually like you to start using the edit button instead of double posting. It is much better that way.

thePirate · 03-11-2010, 07:06 AM

I really think your just being overly sensitive, maybe not even type related as I know estjs who do shit like this.

he died with a felafel · 03-11-2010, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Diana

You're sending me mixed messages, Melinda. You seem rather particular about which opinions are okay to express and which ones are not. What if I give you the wrong one? You tell me I'm missing the point, but maybe that's just it, you're looking for a point when there isn't one. Your friends are more than likely just having fun, a name got associated with you and stuck, and became a running joke. No plots or malicious intent, or evil ploys against you with their Fe. There is no reason for it, it's just playing around.

The alternative of course is that none of them like you and are making fun of you behind your back. They might even be plotting your murder as we speak. One can never know.

sorry diana, i was a bit short with you before. you said you didn't understand why sth like that had bothered me. well, i don't know either, it's possibly type related, but the fact is that it did bother me at first. i was asking whether it was Fe - people answered "yes", than i was wondering if it's related to a particular type (question), and how to go about dealing with it(question)

This is actually a very good friend of mine and i've never said "there are plots" or whatever she's working on, but i know she has this tendency and i don't want this thing to get in the middle of this friendship. so i'm doing my part and looking for ways to deal with it since i'm pretty sure it's sth that will happen again. I'm only bothered momentarily, but even then, i thought: why not ask other people about it? Maybe they can offer socionics explanations i could use to understand my friend's actions and my reactions to them. Does this make sense? cheers

he died with a felafel · 03-11-2010, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by thePirate

I really think your just being overly sensitive, maybe not even type related cuz I know estjs to do shit like this.

you know pirate, you may be right, it's very possible i'm being over-sensitive. i haven't actually been able to type her, so i don't even know her type - i think i've known her for too long to be able to look at her "socionically" ( i only suspect Ej due to temperament traits). thanks

silverchris9 · 03-11-2010, 07:27 AM

crazed, I don't know why I once found this exact behavior irritating, but now find it very much endearing and entertaining. Probably because it is not currently directed at me. And also maybe since you've figured out that you're IEI, you feel free to be even more over-the-top with it, and I love over-the-top. (also you're probably right... but you're also somewhat wrong in the way that IEIs normally are, but also you're probably right. IEIs tend to cut to what seems to the be the core of the issue, and are usually right about this, but the non-core stuff does sorta count. Sometimes. Maybe.)

felafel, the girl you're dealing with is a likely EIE, but we (obviously) can't type her based on this one incident. I'm sure people would be glad to try to type her with some more information and possibly some pictures (you know, so I can analyze the curvature of her spine and the length of her head muscles, etc). Also, you could probably stand to be a bit more open-minded about what constitutes not only a response that could be useful to you, but also what constitutes a response that is appropriate for an internet forum of free discussion.

Also, also, agreed with crazed, editing posts is much better than double posting. However, one point on your side is that crazed, over the course of this thread, assigned you two different polrs (Ti and Fe). (sorry crazed, I'm sure you just changed your mind, but reading through the thread, it was a little funny).

EDIT: Also lol + win @diana for calling her Melinda. I kinda wanna call felafel Melinda now too...

crazedratXII · 03-11-2010, 07:58 AM

yeah I thought ENFp until cyclops identified her as an identical, and not a dual. so then i changed it to ISTp

he died with a felafel · 03-12-2010, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by crazedratXII

yeah I thought ENFp until cyclops identified her as an identical, and not a dual. so then i changed it to ISTp

keep trying, you're bound to find it even if it's only by process of elimination.

03-11-2010, 07:27 AM	#65 (permalink)
silverchris9 wants to be a writer. Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: New York Posts: 2,005 Blog Entries: 4	crazed, I don't know why I once found this exact behavior irritating, but now find it very much endearing and entertaining. Probably because it is not currently directed at me. And also maybe since you've figured out that you're IEI, you feel free to be even more over-the-top with it, and I love over-the-top. (also you're probably right... but you're also somewhat wrong in the way that IEIs normally are, but also you're probably right. IEIs tend to cut to what seems to the be the core of the issue, and are usually right about this, but the non-core stuff does sorta count. Sometimes. Maybe.) felafel, the girl you're dealing with is a likely EIE, but we (obviously) can't type her based on this one incident. I'm sure people would be glad to try to type her with some more information and possibly some pictures (you know, so I can analyze the curvature of her spine and the length of her head muscles, etc). Also, you could probably stand to be a bit more open-minded about what constitutes not only a response that could be useful to you, but also what constitutes a response that is appropriate for an internet forum of free discussion. Also, also, agreed with crazed, editing posts is much better than double posting. However, one point on your side is that crazed, over the course of this thread, assigned you two different polrs (Ti and Fe). (sorry crazed, I'm sure you just changed your mind, but reading through the thread, it was a little funny). EDIT: Also lol + win @diana for calling her Melinda. I kinda wanna call felafel Melinda now too... __________________ *Not a rule, just a trend.* IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best. Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music... I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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03-11-2010, 07:06 AM	#62 (permalink)
thePirate Lost One Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Pinocchios Nightmares Sociotype: Fe-IEI Posts: 1,416	I really think your just being overly sensitive, maybe not even type related as I know estjs who do shit like this.

03-11-2010, 07:58 AM	#66 (permalink)
crazedratXII Banned Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: alaska Posts: 2,522	yeah I thought ENFp until cyclops identified her as an identical, and not a dual. so then i changed it to ISTp