The LII guy told me, not without a lot of questions from my part, that he doesn't really like how things went out. He said that it's much better to be something spontaneous ("as in the movies or novels", imo
) and that he can't be himself. He said that he can't be spontaneous and that probably the explanation is that "it's not what it should be".
In turn, she said that he's too childish and not organized enough, wants to start a family & stuff, it seems, but imo she's not prepared. She's extremely impatient and doesn't listen, she seriously pissed me off once, with the occasion of the last elections - she was too dumb and still didn't accept her mistake. She said that
I am not realistic while her favorite disappointed all of us, as I predicted... So facts!
My conclusion is that she actually is looking for something, maybe a rich guy? I don't know, she would deny anyway if I ask.
Anyway, I don't know, they said that it's on hold, but it seems that they don't intend to go further, quote "he/she is a very interesting person and nice to talk with. we're pals so far". Whatever. I have the constant feeling that the LII didn't like that I involved too much, he told me at one point that "your job is done here", so like I should not stick my nose anymore, but because I asked further questions it is possible that this bothered him.
IMO she has a higher self-image than in reality and he has a lower one than in reality. He's an artist and an expert in computer graphics while she worked in household & stuff (wiping oldies' asses), and now she's in an whatever-they-do-mass-production-boring-office merely learning Java, servers and such crap.
So no idea, but my overall impression is that they're not so open-minded that I though previously and that they actually didn't trust this compatibility I talked about and it was seen only as an occasion to meet someone. I can't wait for her to meet a "serious gentleman", LIE or something, so the hell gets on her ass
.
Btw, they both told me previously (independently) that they don't think they can find someone who can endure them. Maybe they began with a prejudice?