the social orientation inventory

[ashlesha]

OkCupid | Take The Social Orientation Inventory

The Screenwriter

-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 36% Attention-desiring, 53% Other-directedness, 87% Attachment-desiring, 52% Emotionality, 65% Romance-seeking, 44% Range, and 50% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy.



Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:

-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction

+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)

Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting

Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting

-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments

+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments

-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships

+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships

-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance

+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance

Narrow=interacts with few people

Broad=interacts with many people

Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others

Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others



Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)

Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)

Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)

Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)

[Creepy-male]

Broken link.

[ashlesha]

it works for me, idk whats wrong

[Trevor]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Complainer

-Attent/Self/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 44% Attention-desiring, 32% Other-directedness, 65% Attachment-desiring, 27% Emotionality, 77% Romance-seeking, 32% Range, and 28% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
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Isn't this just lovely?

[marooned]

The Beet

-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure



You scored 26% Attention-desiring, 41% Other-directedness, 75% Attachment-desiring, 61% Emotionality, 64% Romance-seeking, 10% Range, and 40% Secureness.


Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy. You are likely to be shy and to expend much of your mental energy towards self-doubt, shame, embarrassment, etc. If you haven't done so already, consider sexual masochism as a hobby.

[ashlesha]

If you haven't done so already, consider sexual masochism as a hobby.

[marooned]

I like these quadrants better than the Socionics ones.

[Absurd]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...

The Nonchalant Lover

-Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 48% Attention-desiring, 70% Other-directedness, 49% Attachment-desiring, 73% Emotionality, 62% Romance-seeking, 31% Range, and 71% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Acute

Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you like to have high-intensity, short-term interactions—especially sexual/romantic ones—but you don't put much effort into maintaining relationships. Living in the present and letting go when necessary appeals to you more than holding on.

[tereg]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Admirer

+Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 53% Attention-desiring, 58% Other-directedness, 87% Attachment-desiring, 49% Emotionality, 66% Romance-seeking, 30% Range, and 25% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others. You make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially romantic partners. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests than shared emotions for you. You are likely to be shy.

Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)
Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Broad=interacts with many people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others

Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)
Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)



Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)

• 
  You scored 53% on Attention-desiring, higher than 56% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 58% on Other-directedness, higher than 31% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 87% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 97% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 49% on Emotionality, higher than 27% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 66% on Romance-seeking, higher than 45% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 30% on Range, higher than 13% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 25% on Secureness, higher than 5% of your peers.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

im too lazy to do the test, but I am:

+Attent
Self focused
+Attach
+Emo
+<3
Uhhh Broad actually. I realize I publicly talk about everybody's personal issues in public like most narcissists. OOPS.
And I'm Secure. I don't think other people will devalue me at all, instead I am more worried that I will hurt *other people's* feelings. In fact, people are too nice. People defend the demon in me too much. I wish people would stand up to me more and call me on my shit more often, actually. I need somebody tough like that.

[Bardia]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Socrates

+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 62% Attention-desiring, 67% Other-directedness, 78% Attachment-desiring, 74% Emotionality, 43% Romance-seeking, 52% Range, and 71% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others. You like to have close, intense friendships with many different people. You are likely to be a leader.

[Galen]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Co-dependent
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 57% Attention-desiring, 58% Other-directedness, 93% Attachment-desiring, 74% Emotionality, 74% Romance-seeking, 35% Range, and 31% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You latch onto other people, particularly romantic partners, to save you from the lameness and/or existential torture of being you. Sometimes this results in restraining orders against you. You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others.


Sounds pretty accurate

[Bardia]

Your result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Co-dependent
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
You scored 57% Attention-desiring, 58% Other-directedness, 93% Attachment-desiring, 74% Emotionality, 74% Romance-seeking, 35% Range, and 31% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You latch onto other people, particularly romantic partners, to save you from the lameness and/or existential torture of being you. Sometimes this results in restraining orders against you. You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others.


Sounds pretty accurate

I think this situation calls for an appropriate internet hug and comfort. There you go.

[CILi]

The Artist

+Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 59% Attention-desiring, 53% Other-directedness, 69% Attachment-desiring, 74% Emotionality, 77% Romance-seeking, 44% Range, and 50% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging -- High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)

Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. You make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense.

[eunice]

My results:

The Co-dependent
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 66% Attention-desiring, 72% Other-directedness, 68% Attachment-desiring, 66% Emotionality, 69% Romance-seeking, 26% Range, and 34% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You latch onto other people, particularly romantic partners, to save you from the lameness and/or existential torture of being you. Sometimes this results in restraining orders against you. You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on others.

Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:


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-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction

+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)


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Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting

Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting


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-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments

+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments


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-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships

+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships


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-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance

+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance


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Narrow=interacts with few people

Broad=interacts with many people

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Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others

Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others


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Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)

Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)

Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)

Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)

[Galen]

I think this situation calls for an appropriate internet hug and comfort. There you go.

Lol, thanks for the sympathy

[Jenna]

The Ringing Phone

+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Insecure

You scored 51% Attention-desiring, 72% Other-directedness, 81% Attachment-desiring, 57% Emotionality, 94% Romance-seeking, 53% Range, and 31% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: Your identity comes from other people, i.e., you latch onto them in order to escape the lameness and/or existential hell of being you. You are likely to seek out many romantic/sexual partners, possibly at the same time or one right after another. The possibility of abandonment worries you.

[Galen]

My results:

The Co-dependent
+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 66% Attention-desiring, 72% Other-directedness, 68% Attachment-desiring, 66% Emotionality, 69% Romance-seeking, 26% Range, and 34% Secureness.

Yay identicals!

[silverchris9]

our result for The Social Orientation Inventory ...
The Prince(ss) Charming

-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 49% Attention-desiring, 28% Other-directedness, 60% Attachment-desiring, 55% Emotionality, 52% Romance-seeking, 65% Range, and 50% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do like to have many close, intense relationships—especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that you maintain your autonomy throughout all the moonlight trysts.



Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:

-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction

+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)

Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting

Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting

-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments

+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments

-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships

+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships

-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance

+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance

Narrow=interacts with few people

Broad=interacts with many people

Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others

Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others

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Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)

Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)

Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)

Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)



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[Creepy-male]

The Screenwriter
-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 49% Attention-desiring, 40% Other-directedness, 59% Attachment-desiring, 67% Emotionality, 92% Romance-seeking, 44% Range, and 50% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging

Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy.

[Marie84]

The Injured Kitten
-Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 33% Attention-desiring, 85% Other-directedness, 83% Attachment-desiring, 63% Emotionality, 77% Romance-seeking, 30% Range, and 21% Secureness.

Summary: You can do without much acknowledgment and recognition, and you enjoy spending time alone. Nevertheless, you make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while allowing you enough space. You are likely to be shy.

[The Exception]

The Screenwriter

-Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

You scored 41% Attention-desiring, 35% Other-directedness, 53% Attachment-desiring, 57% Emotionality, 56% Romance-seeking, 31% Range, and 53% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You tend to live in your own head and do not get too invested in the details of others' lives, but you do make an effort to hold onto important relationships, especially sexual/romantic ones. It is important that your relationships be close and intense while not robbing you of your autonomy.





I'm pretty sure I'm -emo.

[Creepy-male]

Hmm, do you disagree with +emo because of "emotionally intense", or because you identify with -emo and "unemotional"?

[The Exception]

Hmm, do you disagree with +emo because of "emotionally intense", or because you identify with -emo and "unemotional"?

I identify more with -emo because I prefer less emotional relationships to more emotionally intense ones. Too much intensity scares me.

[Aleksei]

The Barrel of Fun

+Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 86% Attention-desiring, 64% Other-directedness, 64% Attachment-desiring, 46% Emotionality, 72% Romance-seeking, 69% Range, and 69% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Companionate

Summary: You crave regular interaction and like to keep the focus on other people. You make an effort to hold onto friendships and sexual/romantic relationships with many different people. Interpersonal relationships are more about shared interests and/or lust than shared emotions for you.

[Blaze]

The Casanova

+Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

You scored 51% Attention-desiring, 77% Other-directedness, 60% Attachment-desiring, 77% Emotionality, 80% Romance-seeking, 68% Range, and 71% Secureness.
Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: Everyone within a five-mile radius knows who you are. Your high self-confidence and pushiness might scare some people away, but overall you have no problem making and keeping relationships. You're probably loud in bed.

Here is a glossary to help you understand the cryptic, septapartite notation of your SOI type:
-Attent=low desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction
+Attent=high desire for attention, acknowledgement, and/or interaction (specific attentional needs vary from type to type)

Self=more interested in oneself than in others when interacting
Other=more interested in others than in oneself when interacting
-Attach=does not seek out long-term attachments
+Attach=seeks out long-term attachments
-Emo=prefers unemotional relationships
+Emo=prefers emotionally intense relationships
-<3=low desire for sex and/or romance
+<3=high desire for sex and/or romance
Narrow=interacts with few people
Broad=interacts with many people
Insecure=expects negative evaluation from others
Secure=does not expect negative evaluation from others

Merging=High attachment-seeking, high emotionality (merging types are prone to obsession; devotion; identity crises; offspring)
Companionate=High attachment-seeking, low emotionality (companionate types are likely to be loyal, cool-headed, and dependable, with a long-term temporal orientation)
Acute=Low attachment-seeking, high emotionality (acute types tend toward extremes, and temporal orientation is mostly immediate)
Distant=Low attachment-seeking, low emotionality (distant types are the most autonomous and the most avoidant)


Your Analysis (Vertical line = Average)

• 
  You scored 51% on Attention-desiring, higher than 48% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 77% on Other-directedness, higher than 68% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 60% on Attachment-desiring, higher than 42% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 77% on Emotionality, higher than 94% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 80% on Romance-seeking, higher than 73% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 68% on Range, higher than 82% of your peers.
• 
  You scored 71% on Secureness, higher than 73% of your peers.

[Absurd]

That's good. Take the test, people. Set the example.

[limNol]

The Borderline Personality

+Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

You scored 67% Attention-desiring, 54% Other-directedness, 71% Attachment-desiring, 83% Emotionality, 79% Romance-seeking, 49% Range, and 34% Secureness.

Your Bonding Quadrant: Merging
Summary: You crave regular acknowledgment and recognition from others. You make an effort to hold onto the few important people in your life, especially sexual/romantic partners. Your high expectations for closeness and intensity may lead to feelings of rejection.

[Aleksei]

ILE- +Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure
LII- -Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure
SEI- -Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure

EIE- +Attent/Other/+Attach/-Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure
IEI- +Attent/Self/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Broad/Secure

LSE- -Attent/Other/-Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Secure)
IEE- +Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure
EII- +Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/+<3/Narrow/Insecure

LIE- -Attent|Self|-Attach|+Emo|+<3|Narrow/Secure
ESI- +Attent/Other/+Attach/+Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure

+Attent: F-base, Extroversion
-Attent: T-base

Other: Fi, Si
Self: Ti/Fe

+Attach: F-ego, Fe-valuation
-Attach: Te-ego

+Emo: Everything apparently
-Emo: Me

+<3: Everyone
-<3: ESI?

Narrow: Delta, Alpha introvert
Broad: Beta, Alpha extrovert, Se-ego

Secure: Everyone but Delta NFs
Insecure: Delta NFs

[April]

I accidentally closed the window with the percentages, but I got the Screenwriter.

[Deja Vu]

The Social Climber
+Attent/Self/-Attach/-Emo/-<3/Broad/Secure

53% Attention Seeking
41% Other-directedness
34% Attachment Desiring
34% Emotionality
41% Romance Seeking
74% Range
55% Secure