VI Boyfriend's Family PLEASE!!!

[ScarlettLux]

I'm EXTREMELY curious as to what types you guys all think they look like. I have my educated guesses.

PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE!!!


From the far left -- the dad, sister, sister's husband, me, boyfriend.


Sister and mother.


Sister, dad, mom.

Okay so some more information, random anecdotes I know about them that might mean a lot but also might mean nothing at all :

The Father
* Lover of music, plays guitar, piano.
* Seems the introvert in the marriage; also more laid back and energy is much lower.
* Buys random things that he is interested in like the keyboard to play, a book of the funniest things ever said, etc.
* Job has something to do with computers
* Laughs a lot and gets along very well with his wife and son-in-law

The Mother
* Very outgoing, extremely friendly and kind, loving, welcoming.
* Really good cook, seems to care about being a good hostess and making everybody feel comfortable
* Cares about style, clothes somewhat (at least more than my mom lol)
* High energy level, always talking

The Sister
* Seems introverted, not sure if she's laid back or rigid (Ixxj or Ixxp or anything else?)
* Seems to respond well to ? But perhaps not in her ego -- like she requires someone else to do it... ?
* Very good relationship with husband (son-in-law); I thought they could be duals? But perhaps not, b/c I have an idea about him that wouldn't make sense if they were duals.
* Likes Harry Potter? lol
* Studied culinary stuff in college
* Apparently boyfriend said her and him do not really 'know' eachother all that well on any deeper level but hey, that could be any bro & sis - they do get along though.

Sister's Husband
* EXTREMELY gregarious and talkative; always cracking jokes and I mean, ALWAYS! Very funny guy.
* Is an excellent salesman @ Future Shop and always gets us discounts, etc. Makes a lot of money selling stuff! =P
* Seems to know quite a lot about technology, etc.
* Obviously valuing, imo. I personally think he's an SLE and actually my and my boyfriend's dual! BF says nah lol ... but what does he know? I felt very 'normal' with this guy when I met him, felt he was average... Perhaps ILE? But I dunno.


OVERALL; when we are all together, it seems very Alpha/Beta to me, TONS of everywhere and very warm atmosphere. Everyone gets along really well...

What do you guys think?

[strrrng]

Sister seems INFj, mom ESFj, dad ESTj and brother EP (probably Ne-valuing). Not sure your bf seems INFp, either

[olduser]

ur bf is intx. dunno for the rest of the family, nothing stands out. i do think the salesperson brother is ExxP. the sister seems isfj.

[ScarlettLux]

Sister seems INFj, mom ESFj, dad ESTj and brother EP (probably Ne-valuing). Not sure your bf seems INFp, either

Dad ESTj?!?! No wayyy

[ScarlettLux]

ur bf is intx. dunno for the rest of the family, nothing stands out. i do think the salesperson brother is ExxP. the sister seems isfj.

My bf is 100% IEI.

[strrrng]

Dad ESTj?!?! No wayyy

Well, I actually considered beta ST at first, so that's far from conclusive.

[Park]

Father - INTj
Mother - ESFj
Sister - hot as fuck - maybe ISTj.
Sister's husband - ESTj

[implied]

i actually think the boyfriend looks IEI.

[Kim]

i actually think the boyfriend looks IEI.

I agree. I also agree with LSI for the sister. She has that LSI look that I find intimidating and scary. :wink:

[crazedrat]

duno about the sister but i would have sex with her. ISTx is my guess

[UDP]

My bf is 100% IEI.

I'm not implying anything by saying this, just asking out of curiousity:

in being a relationship with someone like that (100% IEI), does it solidify your self typing of SEE? I've been away from much of the forum for a while so I'm not sure if you said that/commented on it elsewhere.

[ScarlettLux]

I'm not implying anything by saying this, just asking out of curiousity:

in being a relationship with someone like that (100% IEI), does it solidify your self typing of SEE? I've been away from much of the forum for a while so I'm not sure if you said that/commented on it elsewhere.

Wut lol, I'm not SEE. I'm IEI.

[UDP]

Ah. I suppose that explains the quote in your sig.

[Expat]

What do you guys think?

Just looking at the pictures and what you said in the first post:

Most clear to me are the parents:

Father: SEI
Mother: ESE

The sister's husband may be ILE. It would be tempting to say that the sister is LII, but I don't know.

[ScarlettLux]

Just looking at the pictures and what you said in the first post:

Most clear to me are the parents:

Father: SEI
Mother: ESE

The sister's husband may be ILE. It would be tempting to say that the sister is LII, but I don't know.

Yes! This is pretty much what I think now. I thought about it more and no, the husband is much more ILE > SLE. A full quadrable, eh? That would be so lucky for them. It makes sense though... the sister got EII on the similar minds test, fyi and I don't take that seriously, but I do take it into consideration that it may be one off the MBTI type in terms of letters and such, therefore LII would be probable. She kind of does remind me of another female LII friend I used to have in high school. Hmm.

[Expat]

I know you said everyone gets along, but if your bf is the only Beta, he may feel a bit like the "odd man out" - as in, the only one who (according to him) thinks of "big issues" or "really important things" - did you ever notice anything like that?

[Wynch]

LII for the sister was the strongest impression I got in the entire group, fwiw. That or EII.

Mom: EXFj
Dad: Dunno
Sister: LII > EII
Brother-in-law: XLE sounds fine.

[ScarlettLux]

I know you said everyone gets along, but if your bf is the only Beta, he may feel a bit like the "odd man out" - as in, the only one who (according to him) thinks of "big issues" or "really important things" - did you ever notice anything like that?

Oddly enough -- no. LOL. I don't think my bf is your typical IEI though; he is a definite Ni subtype... it doesn't make that much sense b/c I would personally put him more inclined towards the Gamma quadra > Alpha quadra and yet, he gets along fine with everyone.

He does however, seem a little on the outskirts though. Yeah, he sometimes spends more time talking with me on the phone when I'm not there than with the family when they're all together. He does say that he 'doesn't spend as much time with them' as they all do together in general, and he feels bad about it occasionally and attempts to join in the group. When he does join, I don't think there is much of a problem.

[ScarlettLux]

LII for the sister was the strongest impression I got in the entire group, fwiw. That or EII.

Mom: EXFj
Dad: Dunno
Sister: LII > EII
Brother-in-law: XLE sounds fine.

LII, really? Hmm... was it something in the V.I. that ticked you off on that? And it's weird how I read more about the male SEI prototype that could likely fit the dad... strange how you get no dual vibes though.

[Wynch]

I find Ne IJs give off a more calm and relaxed vibe while Se IJs give off a more intense or piercing undertone. Si Agenda vs Ni Agenda is how I would explain it. If she was an LSI she would have to be Ti-sub, imo. That said, you miss a lot in pictures. What's most obvious is she has to be an IJ. I mean, look at that woman. I don't even like VI and it seems obvious.

As for the father, I'll be honest, I could barely see his face at home because I was on my laptop. Now that I'm at work with my huge monitors I can see his face a little better and he could definitely be an SEI. Definitely seems very soft around the edges, if you know what I mean.

[Park]

I agree with SEI for the father. My initial guess from the description was actually SLI, but thought he really didn't look/VI like one.

The sister looks a bit too stern and tough for an INTj, IMO. Ti subtype perhaps though.