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how you think each type perceives their polr
edited for gayness - what a mess
Last edited by strangeling; 07-20-2012 at 08:35 PM.
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Hello!Originally Posted by gambit
ILE "Searcher"
Socionics: ENTp
DCNH: Dominant
--> perhaps Normalizing
Enneagram: 7w6 "Enthusiast"
MBTI: ENTJ "Field Marshall" or ENTP "Inventor"
Astrological sign: Aquarius
To learn, read. To know, write. To master, teach.
base is not
PoLR; they are
I'm probably not the best person to go on aboutPoLR. I do have an anecdote, though: at work, we have a couple of accounts for which we do sales work. On one of them, we are supposed to offer a ton of rebuttals, even some that I would feel are rather below the belt. If they want to go talk to their doctor or their spouse, we give them a rebuttal (basically give them the "We have a money back guarantee!" and "This is a limited time offer!" spiels). We get commissions off of these, so sure it's nice to sell something, but I'm not going to freak out if someone needs more time to think or if they want to go talk to a spouse or doctor first. In that sense, I am not horribly pushy. I also know that were I on the other end, I would be horribly irritated by the sales tactics we are expected to use. One of my co-workers and I regularly complain about this to each other.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
ILE: "Fuck normative sentimentalisms, I got cold logic"
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
And imagine, kids, that these guys are the ones who shed a tear at the end of the day simply because something is just too cute.
"Use every ounce of potential you have, raise revolution against what people expect of you, and tell the world this is not a rehearsal. This is the real me. And listen up, ‘cause it could be the most honest incarnation yet."
Actually I have been crying even more lately. I saw this old dog I have know throughout he's life and he was just so old that it just existentially hit me. Yesterday I watched Tim Burton's Batman Return and it was just so theatrical that I had to cry. I have also cried for a third reason during the 48 hours but I'm not sharing that here.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
This doesn't mean that I will tell it even if I will have some. But I might like some of that chocolate cake, yes, I would fancy that.I'll save some of that cake for you just because you're so cute!
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
I'm the same.I did teach myself to knit socks with a book but it was onerous.
IEI-Fe 4w3
I don't get it at all.
HA HA. Me and knitting... Oh my god! I won't even start with that. I've tried it multiple times but I just don't get it.Even my mom who isn't exactly a whiz at handicrafts couldn't look at me screwing up this one time I was giving it a try and actually took the sticks out of my hands and started doing it for me. One of the only things I really suck at...
IEI-Fe 4w3
Unless it's a PoLR hit.
“I tell you, freedom and human rights in America are doomed. The U.S. government will lead the American people in — and the West in general — into an unbearable hell and a choking life. - Osama bin Laden
#finnishworldproblems
I see my Polr as unimportant. I'm positive Te has its usefulness, but to me "the facts" tend to have holes in them that make them not so factual.
Projection is ordinary. Person A projects at person B, hoping tovalidate something about person A by the response of person B. However, person B, not wanting to be an obejct of someone elses ego and guarding against existential terror constructs a personality which protects his ego and maintain a certain sense of a robust and real self that is different and separate from person A. Sadly, this robust and real self, cut off by defenses of character from the rest of the world, is quite vulnerable and fragile given that it is imaginary and propped up through external feed back. Person B is dimly aware of this and defends against it all the more, even desperately projecting his anxieties back onto person A, with the hope of shoring up his ego with salubrious validation. All of this happens without A or B acknowledging it, of course. Because to face up to it consciously is shocking, in that this is all anybody is doing or can do and it seems absurd when you realize how pathetic it is.
I blame Te-PoLR for my bouncing all around the supermarket like a pinball while picking items at random from my shopping list, with a total disregard for the store's layout and which things are closest to each other. Efficiency, my ass.
^ lol
For me I don't view my POLR as necessarily useless but its just...the thought of using it is....awkward, and almost terrifying at times. It makes me feel vulnerable and unmanly. Can't do it. >.>'
LOL but wait...this is how I feel everyday at work!This is how I view my Te PoLR
Yes, I feel the same way about mine. Is it strange a woman is afraid of looking emotional?
I blame my PoLR for absolutely nothing in life, and neither should anybody else.
I kind of know what you mean. I feel like I've been using my PoLR as an excuse to legitimize not giving a shit/doing shit that I don't like lately.
It's a pain, but I'm glad my PoLR is, it helps me safely ignore most people and their wants and desires. And most people's wants and desires are frankly, uninteresting and pointless.
On the other hand, it's a source of my problems and what I think society expects of me. Overall, I rather have my PoLR than something like
My PoLR helps me focus on my creative function, so I don't have to deal with the PITA in that area of my life.
for me, it's not about planning or not planning, it's more about attention span, energy level and switching my priorities around. "efficiency" is not really a priority of mine unless it's grocery shopping or running errands in which case it's still more about conserving my energy and getting things done according to deadlines. I always always put things off until the last minute. And the funny thing is, stuff still always works out. I can't remember a single time that I procrastinated and things fell apart.
IEI-Fe 4w3
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Last edited by strangeling; 07-20-2012 at 08:30 PM.
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This is the third time you've responded to my statements toward you with an attack or accusation of some sort, and it's not like we talk much to begin with. Do you generally operate in such a manner, or do you have something against me in particular?
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
I answered this question years ago.
edited for gayness. fff
Last edited by strangeling; 07-20-2012 at 08:30 PM.
good bye
.................................................. .....................................Right. Carry on, then.
Johari/Nohari
"Tell someone you love them today, because life is short; shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying."
Fruit, the fluffy kitty.
lmao so TRUE.
The end is nigh
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