I was wondering what is the difference between sexual and social 4. Of course i know the definitions of 4 sp being dauntless and 4 so being shameful, however i have dificulty putting this in context.
I'am asking because i'am sure of being 4w5 but struggle to find my subtype and it is one of the two.
I tend to be very withdrawn and do not speak at all when i'am not comfortable, however i can be quite outgoing when in a group where i feel at ease. However even in those situation i will try to keep with the peole i know share the same interests as me. I realised that i prefere group situations than one on one but still dislike too huge groups especially when i don't know the people that are involved.
I dream of doing alot of adventurous things like globetrotting but in the end i prefere to stay safe and away from danger. I dont like to possess alot of things so i can feel free and less bound by material things. Well in the other hand i still buy alot of useless accessories that i think will help me define myself just to almost never wear them.
I hate commitments and don't like to share intimate informations with others, except when i feel desperate then i need to over play how my life have been a tragedy to anybody who is here to listen. However i later regret exposing myself so much.
I hate intimacy, i prefere having partner to discuss similar interests and ideas than having intense attraction. I see sex as something separated from passion and love, for me it is more a physiological need.
Lastly i care alot about the way i look as well as being healthy. Both are very important to me.
I see how i'am very social oriented, but 4 so are generally attracted to prestige and hiearchy, i'am not because i prefere to stay safe, what is important to me is to be able to express myself freely and be remembered for that.