Identicals
I am sure I've read about this before but couldn't find a thread about it; if there is one, please let me know.
When interacting with an identical, have you found that one of you begins to act like your dual?
I am hoping for examples from real life interactions with your identicals....
It's not exactly the same, but as far as Identical interactions go, Rick started a project on the wikisocion about thisOriginally Posted by songofsappho
http://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.php?title=Type_talk
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
Haven't come across too many like me yet. Maybe I'm in the wrong field/part of the world?
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Thank you, Tereg! Like you said, that is not exactly what I was asking about, but I had not seen it before; it is very interesting.
This:
is pretty consistent w my experiences w other SLI's.SLI talk
Two SLIs together will tend to talk about what they're doing right at the moment, about things they know how to do and how they do them, physical states, and details about their health and lifestyle. The tone of conversations is generally low-key and somewhat monotone, punctuated by bursts of laughter.
Examples:
- "I've just have no energy today."
- "Why? Did you get enough sleep?"
conversation turns into a discussion of factors contributing to fatigue, including diet, sleep, medications, etc.
- "You haven't seen my tattoo yet, have you?" (proceeds to show tattoo)
conversations turns into a discussion of where and how tattoos are done, and the experience of getting one
- "Yesterday I picked up my new ____"
- "Cool."
a long discussion of how to use the thing follows
I also notice that we both try to use our NeFi, both making an effort to learn new/interesting things about each other to build a connection, as well as bringing in interesting, "random" topics of discussion that somehow relate to what one or both of us is/are interested in.
I have to go right now, but hopefully I'll have more to add later....
I think, perhaps, everybody tries to be whichever type's dual. And that is probably where the discomfort, exhaustion, or overall frustration may come from, that is, when you are trying to be in good terms with someone.
Just a postulation.
I think i'd be so thrilled to meet someone else like myself (that sounds bad...someone else who thinks like myself) I wouldn't notice their "flaws" and would probobly convince myself it was duality. It's so easy to talk to other ISTP's--maybe that's why it seems they're your dual.
No. We act like two Identicals. We act cutsey/romantic with each other, but when an actual project comes up we get stumped because we both wantand can't use it that well. I enjoy conversations with other IEIs very much because we usually agree and support/justify one another. It feels good to have your own torn hooted. However, with actual life tasks that require physical maneuvering two IEIs aren't very efficient due to the
I love them for romantic relationships, and self-improvement, and also friendships. It's comforting. But with my dual, we go on more adventures.I just LOOOOVE identicals...! Nothing is as intense.
On that note, I need your MSN! We can set an outlook calendar reminder to eat three hours in, lol.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
Yeah. I just had a phone convo with this other IEI and omg it was so cute. We both were loving each other so much, and really connecting. I think I'm in love actually...
Two IEIs are probably the strongest love couple of them all ... two romantics, how can it get any better? Haha.
I made a thread to discuss SLI-SLI interactions here: http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...641#post443641
Maybe others will make similar threads to discuss their experiences w identical relations... I think it would be really cool to read about these.
I think I have met 2? One was awesome! She was as crazy as me and just so amzing to talk to! The other...well it was kind of flat, I mean I just couldn't get juiced, I think it was just the whole slow to open up IEI thing, but maybe I mistyped...
The first was comfotable with awesome sparks but the second was just strained as she was so withdrawn...
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