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    I found my list of criteria for my prefered partner. yes this is wierd, yes blablabla criticism, now tell me what type she is!!

    In love with all the aspects of my being
    Into moderate bedroom bdsm
    Attractive and beautifully classy
    Open to threesomes
    Moderately submissive
    Sensitive physical and emotional
    Sexually active matching my libido
    Sexually open and exploring
    Intelligent and developed
    Financially independent
    Very open to humor
    Moderately extroverted
    A bit younger than me
    Sweet/innocent eyes
    Happy and stable
    Not too playettish
    Trustworthy and honest
    Smaller than me
    A dancer, erotically and classy
    Fond of dressing up
    Appreciative
    A perfect fit for my sleeping style
    Willing to be together and to give me my space when I need it
    Attracted to my intelligence, personality, humor and sensitivity
    Supportive of my goals, dreams and hobbies
    A good match with my friends and family
    Single and childless for now
    Healthy
    Living close by
    Caring
    Fond of games

    edit: musical intermezzo


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    Can we suggest truck?..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Persephone View Post
    Can we suggest truck?..
    You can, but it's well known that truck and I aren't too compatible. Also, him having a penis and no breasts makes him a very mediocre woman although surgery could fix that i guess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    You can, but it's well known that truck and I aren't too compatible. Also, him having a penis and no breasts makes him a very mediocre woman although surgery could fix that i guess.
    Oh that's sure a real drama.

    Otherwise, those features are not typable. Any type can be like this, both need to be on the same wavelengh.
    Attractiveness is really tricky and subjective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Persephone View Post
    Can we suggest truck?..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Persephone View Post
    Oh that's sure a real drama.

    Otherwise, those features are not typable. Any type can be like this, both need to be on the same wavelengh.
    Attractiveness is really tricky and subjective.
    aww spoilsport, you're not even trying!!!

    "moderately submissive' -> all agressors are elminated

    Sure people here can work their magic, if they can deduce type from lousy pictures they sure can from an extended list of attributes!

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    Most of your list:

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    Quote Originally Posted by FoxOnStilts View Post
    Most of your list:
    oh, come-on; good sense of humor: Gamma is eliminated!

    Use your immagination people!!!

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    SLI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FoxOnStilts View Post
    SLI.
    It was the "smaller than me" part that gave it away wasn't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    It was the "smaller than me" part that gave it away wasn't it?
    Rather the BDSM part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Persephone View Post
    Rather the BDSM part.
    I swear I edited that out!! Could as well have written "introverted Delta woman" :S

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    This thread is not having the results that I was aiming at:

    no-one offered themselves as my dual yet

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    i somehow see a delta furry BDSM scene involving a babby giraffe costume in your future

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    Quote Originally Posted by darya View Post
    i somehow see a delta furry BDSM scene involving a babby giraffe costume in your future
    I've checked, there are no baby-giraffe costumes in the multitude of sexstores in my neighbourhood, bunny's yes, giraffe's no :'(

    I'm going to make one from scratch (actually, that's not a bad idea ) and will report back as soon as i've found my dual who's ok with baby-giraffe-infantile-sex-fantasies ^^

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    You basically want the perfect woman refi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    I found my list of criteria for my prefered partner. yes this is wierd, yes blablabla criticism, now tell me what type she is!!

    In love with all the aspects of my being
    Into moderate bedroom bdsm
    Attractive and beautifully classy
    Open to threesomes
    Moderately submissive
    Sensitive physical and emotional
    Sexually active matching my libido
    Sexually open and exploring
    Intelligent and developed
    Financially independent
    Moderately extroverted
    A bit younger than me
    Not too playettish
    A dancer, erotically and classy
    Fond of dressing up


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    SEI.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Solaris View Post
    AAAAAAAHH it's soo cute !!! Thanks Solaris (is that you?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    AAAAAAAHH it's soo cute !!! Thanks Solaris (is that you?)
    Unfortunately not. This was among a bunch of cute animals and it reminded me of your lonesome thread. It ain't very classy though, hope you don't mind...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Solaris View Post
    Unfortunately not. This was among a bunch of cute animals and it reminded me of your lonesome thread. It ain't very classy though, hope you don't mind...
    It's SUPER classy such a happy giraffe Baby-giraffe-duality approved


    (we can do bdsm by just rolling around together, we'll get all tangled up )

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    I found my list of criteria for my prefered partner. yes this is wierd, yes blablabla criticism, now tell me what type she is!!

    In love with all the aspects of my being
    Into moderate bedroom bdsm
    Attractive and beautifully classy
    Open to threesomes
    Moderately submissive
    Sensitive physical and emotional
    Sexually active matching my libido
    Sexually open and exploring
    Intelligent and developed
    Financially independent
    Very open to humor
    Moderately extroverted
    A bit younger than me
    Sweet/innocent eyes
    Happy and stable
    Not too playettish
    Trustworthy and honest
    Smaller than me
    A dancer, erotically and classy

    Fond of dressing up
    Appreciative
    A perfect fit for my sleeping style
    Willing to be together and to give me my space when I need it
    Attracted to my intelligence, personality, humor and sensitivity
    Supportive of my goals, dreams and hobbies
    A good match with my friends and family
    Single and childless for now
    Healthy
    Living close by
    Caring
    Fond of games

    edit: musical intermezzo
    the girl of your dreams is an anime heroine




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    “My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.”​ —C.G. Jung
     
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    Quote Originally Posted by yeves View Post
    the girl of your dreams is an anime heroine



    Agreed Only in amine does the sweet beautifull chick pick the misunderstood somewhat nerdy (but still athletically endowed) outsider!

    Although anime heroines do lack character often. I liked the characters from Black Rock Shooter somewhat character wise. Also Kallen from Code Geass. But usually they're immature/one dimentional.

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    Quote Originally Posted by William View Post
    Many of these are absolutely not-type-related at all.
    Haha, that was kinda the joke William ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    I found my list of criteria for my prefered partner. yes this is wierd, yes blablabla criticism, now tell me what type she is!!

    In love with all the aspects of my being
    Into moderate bedroom bdsm
    Attractive and beautifully classy
    Open to threesomes
    Moderately submissive
    Sensitive physical and emotional
    Sexually active matching my libido
    Sexually open and exploring
    Intelligent and developed
    Financially independent
    Very open to humor
    Moderately extroverted
    A bit younger than me
    Sweet/innocent eyes
    Happy and stable
    Not too playettish
    Trustworthy and honest
    Smaller than me
    A dancer, erotically and classy
    Fond of dressing up
    Appreciative

    A perfect fit for my sleeping style
    Willing to be together and to give me my space when I need it little tricky this one, cause most men are this way and desire this from their partners.
    Attracted to my intelligence, personality, humor and sensitive type related yes and no.
    Supportive of my goals, dreams and hobbies
    A good match with my friends and family
    Single and childless for now
    Healthy
    Living close by
    Caring
    Fond of games
    I highlighted some traits I think actually can be attributed to type.

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    Not type related:

    Into moderate bedroom bdsm (some would say this is in the very least correlative or indirectly related to Se/Ni, but I'm not so sure that's true)
    Attractive
    Open to threesomes
    Sexually active matching my libido
    Sexually open and exploring
    Intelligent and developed
    Financially independent
    Very open to humor (all types find something funny)
    A bit younger than me
    Happy and stable
    Trustworthy and honest
    Smaller than me
    Fond of dressing up (as in role playing?)
    Appreciative
    A perfect fit for my sleeping style
    Willing to be together and to give me my space when I need it
    Single and childless for now
    Healthy
    Living close by
    Caring
    Fond of games

    Probably not and/or indirectly type related:


    In love with all the aspects of my being
    Moderately submissive
    Not too playettish
    Moderately extroverted
    Sweet/innocent eyes
    A dancer, erotically and classy
    Attracted to my intelligence, personality, humor and sensitivity
    Supportive of my goals, dreams and hobbies
    A good match with my friends and family
    beautifully classy (mostly not type related/in the eye of the beholder, but I do think that Fe types are often better at conveying classiness than others due to their awareness of the internal impact they have on others)

    Probably type related:


    Sensitive physical and emotional (Si + Fe)
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    I disagree with Joy's list.
    Last edited by wacey; 07-24-2014 at 08:50 PM. Reason: Don't ask me why! :D

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    I disagree with Joy's list.
    What would you make of the qualities in your list?

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    I've seen those traits in people of all types. Even something as basic as social extroversion isn't entirely type related. Intelligence is certainly not type related. Some types may tend to get higher test scores given the same level and even type of intelligence, but that doesn't mean that they're realistically more intelligent. It just means they're better at tests. Certainly there are healthy, stable people of all types (as well as unhealthy, unstable people).
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    I would say she is probably out there.

    When you find her, be prepared to move quickly, she doesn't come along often.

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    Yes, yes joy, everyone can be everything.

    All trees are trees. All animals are animals.

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    Also, I love games and have known people of all types to enjoy games (though I can't think of any Beta STs off the top of my head). There's some correlation between type and type of game, but there are enough exceptions to make it more of a personal/personality thing than type thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    I've seen those traits in people of all types. Even something as basic as social extroversion isn't entirely type related. Intelligence is certainly not type related. Some types may tend to get higher test scores given the same level and even type of intelligence, but that doesn't mean that they're realistically more intelligent. It just means they're better at tests. Certainly there are healthy, stable people of all types (as well as unhealthy, unstable people).
    Does it help if I change it to "performs extremely well on IQ tests"? I've statistically NEVER been attracted to people who sucked at them, and all my long term partners were 130+ scorers. I tried a few less "intelligent" ones but found that their scores match their real life interestingness.

    ((before anyone asks, YES I DO ASK MY PARTNERS TO FILL IN AN IQ TEST!!!!!

    no not really but i've been in an environment where psychology tests (IQ included) where periodic and later when studying psychology we also had to do tests/analyse tests for eachother and i've ever since tested periodically just to see how i'm holding up compared to my age bracket, so I kinda usually know/knew how people score iqwise.))

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    Quote Originally Posted by wacey View Post
    Yes, yes joy, everyone can be everything.
    Point taken. If we're looking at the whole picture and talking about general tendencies, then I would say she's probably irrational, sensory, and/or Fe ego. I think an IEE could also fit most of that description pretty comfortably though, too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    Does it help if I change it to "performs extremely well on IQ tests"? I've statistically NEVER been attracted to people who sucked at them, and all my long term partners were 130+ scorers. I tried a few less "intelligent" ones but found that their scores match their real life interestingness.

    ((before anyone asks, YES I DO ASK MY PARTNERS TO FILL IN AN IQ TEST!!!!!

    no not really but i've been in an environment where psychology tests (IQ included) where periodic and later when studying psychology we also had to do tests/analyse tests for eachother and i've ever since tested periodically just to see how i'm holding up compared to my age bracket, so I kinda usually know/knew how people score iqwise.))
    I may have gotten a little carried away with my devil's advocacy... lol. All of the really intelligent people I know have done well on IQ tests, and their level of intelligence didn't have to do with their type. I do think that say, an LII, would usually score better on an IQ test than say, an SEE, IQ and all other things being equal. Being SEE wouldn't in itself make an intelligent person score an 80 on an IQ test though.

    I believe the hypothesis I heard once that stated that if there's more than a 20 point gap between the IQs of people they have trouble communicating.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    I may have gotten a little carried away with my devil's advocacy... lol. All of the really intelligent people I know have done well on IQ tests, and their level of intelligence didn't have to do with their type. I do think that say, an LII, would usually score better on an IQ test than say, an SEE, IQ and all other things being equal. Being SEE wouldn't in itself make an intelligence person score an 80 on an IQ test though.

    I believe the hypothesis I heard once that stated that if there's more than a 20 point gap between the IQs of people they have trouble communicating.
    You do realise, i hope, that the thread itself is a piece of devils advocacy?

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    I guess I was going of the self typing of Refi, whatever that may be. If all his qualities he desires in a women are reflected back to him, as in HE is the reference point, then I think this dream girl could be typed, sure.

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    I do... but for some reason even when I know that someone isn't being totally serious I still have a tendency to respond very literally. If I get to know someone really well then I'm much more likely to play along with their humor, but for most people I just do what you saw here. I guess I'm a little awkward.
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