So, let's suppose for a second that I'm an EIE-Ni, and that my best friend is an ESI-Se. We have a pretty supporting and beneficial relationship, and although we manage to help each other on practical ways, I can't seem to help her with her self-esteem issues. From what I've read, only the LIE is able to make an impact on how the ESI feels about themselves on any meaningful way, and given the fact that Te is on my superego block, I can only do so much.
That being said, I'd like to know which steps I should take in order to help her at least on a superficial level. I can use Te well enough, it's just that I don't know where to begin with it. I'm afraid of being too forceful and offending her, or annoying her from prying too much into her insecurities without providing any meaningful help, so yeah.