V.I. me and my father.
Exactly like the title says. Not the best relation. Feel tense and awkward around him even with no interaction.
Two angles better than one.
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Fire away.
Edit, and this guy I feel great around. Had to blur the background. My apologies.
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Last edited by Hamada; 11-22-2018 at 11:41 AM.
I can’t tell much from VI, but a person sometimes feels tense and awkward around their Supervisor.
My father is my Supervisor and a genuinely great guy, but I often felt tense, awkward, and critically judged when I was around him.
FAIW, this happened more often when my life wasn’t going as well as I thought it should, and so might have been projection on my part.
Thanks for the input. Added one more person to the mix. For these who do V.I.
I have an idea of what to expect, I know these people better than other forum members anyway. The thing is that all roads in socionics seem to lead somewhere, and I can never be truely objective with my own stuff, so I seek outside perspective.Originally Posted by Adam Strange
U look like an ESFp
Ur dad looks Si ego
Your father looks very SLE IMO, (the kind with whom I've experienced 100% Illusionary relations with IRL before with me as the introvert).
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
my crystal ball intuititve impressions point on the possibility of IEI for you, ENF* for your father
> Edit, and this guy I feel great around. Had to blur the background. My apologies.
SLE
Now that I've typed you as SLI-Si in the other video thread, logic dictates asking if you do indeed experience Contrary relations with your father:
http://www.socionics.com/rel/cnt.htm
because intertype relations over time are usually very true.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
I agree that intertype relations are the best test.
Things were never good between us. Even and maybe especially when we are alone. like there are uncommunicated expectations causing stress. Contrary relation is unlikely.
What about Illusionary?
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Dad looks rational type to me.
Seriously!!!
If you had more photos I might give more than a slight guess
Tentative guesses
Dad - EIE
You - SEI or alpha
Mysterious Man - ILE
Last edited by Heart; 11-23-2018 at 04:18 PM.
????? Is that a yes?
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Yeah I think you are SLI too now @Hamada
Would guess EIE then for dad.
I ll replay with a question, is illusoinary relationship positive or negatives?
There is a video and a questionnaire answers for me.
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...(crappy)-video
http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...7156-Typing-me
I still think his Dad looks Se dominant if not SLE but it is only one pic to go on.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Negative, like Contrary is. The detailed descriptions are at socionics.com.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
http://www.socionics.com/rel/ill.htm
"Illusionary partners find it comfortable being relaxed together, discussing different subjects. What one partner is talking about is always interesting, but in order to understand the partner better the other partner needs to force themselves"
"Disagreements in these relations are usually short because partners are drawn to each other. From time to time Illusionary relations become really warm and caring. It normally happens when partners work together but not on the same task. Partners may feel inspired with the result of a successfully finished project, however when they try to start a new project, they again meet the same difficulties in co-operation. "
Relaxed, interesting, short, warm, caring, inspired.
Do you need a link for a dictionary?
Why?
Read the whole link. It is one of the lesser compatible relations in socionics.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Too many years of experience with the type like my stepGrandma and an exboss to summarize here.
Anyway, to accurately type off one unexpressive pic is tantamount to genius skill level if not just vi luck.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
I dont have other pictures of him at the moment.
I kinda see it in the first two pics with glasses that seem to enlarge his eyes. But in the last pic without glasses he looks just like VI drawings I’ve seen of Hamlet (also resembles many EIEs I’ve known irl with the last one). Chin looks really long which is supposed to be an ethical trait, eyes look unfocused.
LOL nvm I thought they were the same person.
Oh yeah, I see where the EIE Beta vibe is coming from too. So likely Beta. I'd need more data on the gentleman before I could type further.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Mirage IR has the supplement of one of ego functions like a dual would did. Better than average IR.
I had LII pal for years and understand this.
Hmm. It is probably because of my type that I am more sensitized to negative relations than other types. I have had clear cut Illusionary relations on multiple occasions in full per the profile but have yet to ever prefer them. This also may be attributed to my having socialized mostly with people from other quadras than enough to my liking from my own.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
Oh yeah btw I thought LSE the first time for him but just as a guess since only 1 pic to go on.
~* astralsilky
Each essence is a separate glass,
Through which Sun of Being’s Light is passed,
Each tinted fragment sparkles with the Sun,
A thousand colors, but the Light is One.
Jami, 15th c. Persian Poet
Post types & fully individuated before 2012 ...
I am trying to consolidate a common response, so far things seem pretty scattered amongs my honored guests.
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