I met an SLE, and he's awesome
but is currently living far away. He says how much he likes me and such but I'm scared, typical Ni victim ohnohecantbeserioushessogreatandimjustlittleolmehe willsurelygetboredandleavemesadandmissinghim worries. Is there a chance? I mean I know no one can answer about HIM in particular but what about SLEs, do they lose interest really fast and is it bad if I havent been super responsive all the time because of my own insecurities?
Help :
he may not lose interest completely but you do need to respond. they like Fe, y'know.
IEI-Fe 4w3
just go for it if you like each other enough. it won't be the end of the world if it doesn't work out.
I am curious as to how people keep meeting all these SLEs, lol.
Internet dating site?
LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
yeah really. i mean i don't interact with many people but.. it would be niceOriginally Posted by Goldenwings
Lol, by the way, if this guy is wealthy and lives in England, be careful.
LSI: “I still can’t figure out Pinterest.”
Me: “It’s just, like, idea boards.”
LSI: “I don’t have ideas.”
starfall .. somehow you reminded me of ozzy osbourne - shot in the dark .
this bit in particular
But a shot in the dark one step away from you
A shot in the dark always creeping up on you
I figured you were IEI, red. You responded rather cluelessly to some LSEs.
Thanks! I did, and I think I made up for my previous nonresponsiveness, I just get so uncertain sometimes but being less that way is probably something in myself I need to develop.he may not lose interest completely but you do need to respond. they like Fe, y'know.
You're right, I need to just let go and enjoy the ride a bit more, or try to let go any way <3
We met at a party, actually, but I know two SLEs who use dating sites.
You will, just keep living and they will find you <3yeah really. i mean i don't interact with many people but.. it would be nice
Lol, by the way, if this guy is wealthy and lives in England, be careful.
He had been doing a good job of showing he wanted to see me, being attentive and all, but theres only so much he can do through distance. But you are right, he has been persistent so far. I hope it keeps up!
A classic!
Well I still could be EIE, I'm not really sure. And yeah I guess I do seem clueless to LSEs, that kind of misunderstanding goes both ways, seems to me
Strrrng said this in a different thread about SLEs and I am copying it here because its pretty great, "Now I basically enter relationships with no expectations, a charming smile, and a pristine sword in the shadows. I think one should be prepared without being fearful or preemptive."
Last edited by ladyinred; 10-05-2010 at 03:56 AM.
Nice
@ LadyinRed
Do you have any pictures of him? Don't be afraid to ask him for a few; Se leading types are usually not paranoid with emailing you pictures of themselves.
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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