My type

[Ver]

Hi, I decided to add a thread just to make sure I type myself correctly. Actually, the only possibilities I see for myself are Delta NF or Alpha SF (which is less likely). I've always typed myself as ENFp Fi but I heard people saying I might be some other type. What I am like:
I like daydreaming
I'm totally unstructured, especially when I feel less healthy. I cannot force myself to do almost anything
I care about people and animals most, more than I care about myself
I often feel insecure, unless with people I can trust and feel safe with
I have many interests and I find it difficult to make my plans happen, I enjoy the company of "strong", decisive, calm people
I have no problems with showing feelings and being the one who show them more if I trust a person
My main interest are photography, psychology, literature and travelling
In relationship I like stronger partners than myself although I don't have problems with showing initiative when I feel it's the right thing to do
I prefer others to make final decisions
I'm vegetarian and have two dogs
I like close psychological distance but I also enjoy bigger parties where I go with my friends

https://picasaweb.google.com/1158967...11737289174402

[somavision]

yup.

sounds like you might be who you think you might be. Then again perhaps you might be something different. I cannot say and do not know.

[Reuben]

God you're hot come here and let me mount you.

I'd say Ni ego.

[Codie]

When you say that you like daydreaming and your totally unstructured & unable to force yourself to anything kind of rules out Alpha SF, they have strong dont daydream as much. Theres a ton of creative in there, sry I can't be bothered to quote.

I have many interests and I find it difficult to make my plans happen, I enjoy the company of "strong", decisive, calm people SLI seeker fo sho!

The thing that stands out from your pic is your top and hair. I've noticed IEE women have a thing for florals and long strait hair.

[Ver]

Thanks for replies . Actually this thread is pointless I'm the type I thought I am, the only other possibility is INFj, but ENFp s seem introverted as well .

[Reuben]

Pauluch. ILI.

[Ver]

No way I value Se , I'm sorry...

[Absurd]

No way I value Se , I'm sorry...

Si señorita.

[Ver]

Si señorita.

Oh Neeeeeee ....

[Reuben]

Pauluch, what is your understanding of Se?

[Ver]

My understanding of Se:
pure evil forcing me to do things I don't want to do and not giving me even a chance to breathe. Makes it impossible to relax and I'm afraid to say a word. I usually submit to Se but I hate that and I feel like running away. It doesn't mean of course I think is totally bad, it's good for some people, I just don't know how to react to Se. I think Ti is easier for me, although uncomfortable as well.(maybe I was trained to react to Ti due to having alpha family)

[Reuben]

Forcing you to do what you do not what to do? What exactly is it forcing you to do: submitting to social convention, thinking in particular thought patterns, working in a certain manner, behaving for a certain purpose etc....

Se itself is not responsible for the negative feelings you have towards being forced to do what you don't want to do. Se could be the expression of force, but the content itself could be what you're grappling with. e.g. if someone used Se to help you make the decision you've always feared to make, will you thank him or hate him in the end?

[Ver]

Hm, I perceive Se leading types as egoistic people that's why I'm afraid of them. I know I submit easily and I'm afraid they can do some harm to me not taking into account what I want. I just feel they can take advantage of the fact I'm usually not egoistic at all. I mean with my friends (even though one of my best friend is ISFj) I know they will react somehow when I stop thinking about myself. I perceive ESTps and ESFps Se as people who wouldn't even bother to think about myself.

[Reuben]

Oh haha. Trust me, most normal and healthy ESTps and ESFps are very considerate of the people they like/care about/interact with. You're one of them. Could be because you're introvert Ni which is why you are like that... normal for the introvert type to feel unwanted, uncared about, or undeserving by the extrovert partner...

Chances are, they will lead you to where you want to go. Don't worry, just experience it first haha i mean your friend is ISFj so it should be good (: and also it most likely means you like people from gamma!

[rat1]

probably delta NF with that love the animals shit, I've known a few ESFps who get overly sappy for animals but ENFp is the general trend there.

[Reuben]

she doesn't look like it.

[Ver]

https://plus.google.com/u/0/photos/1...55202401?hl=pl

Maybe I look more ENFp-ish here . Anyway, most of my friends are delta and alpha. I actually think of people from every quadra that I get along with. Reuben, did you change from IEE to ILI and then to SLE?

[EyeSeeCold]

Opposing elements are always demonized...yet, we are angels.

[Ver]

It's not that I think they are bad. I just don't know how to react to them.

[Reuben]

Oh um Poluch I posted in another thread about my self-typing evolution

and your picture is tied to your gmail account.............. either give me your username and pass or host it on another image sharing website

[Ver]

There are times in my life when I feel really vulnereable and I'm in need for somebody to take care of me and look at something in a "straight" way, no emotions attached. But there are times (and then I think I might be ESE or some other type) when I feel strong, protective and I willingly take a lot on my shoulders. Do other ENFps feel this way?

[Reuben]

If I were IEE, yes I feel that way too. But less of the first part. Then again, you're a girl, so it's only natural.

(:

[Ave]

girl

[Absurd]

Pauluch. ILI.

Hey Maritsa, long time no see.