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I'm not sure but I know a guy now who wants to talk to me about if he's gay or not all the time... after we just did sexual things with each other lol. It's like, really obvious and clear that you at at least a bisexual guy if you can do something sexual with a guy and really like it and not throw up or run away like a true purebred str8 male would or whatever. This guy is super fragile all-around though and I lose patience with him sometimes. I'm usually nice to people who are really vulnerable and sensitive because I'm that way myself and know what it's like but it's like c'mon. lol.
But I do think society/culture kind of forces gay men into this sort of overly ambivalent role, because it's not as popular or as well liked. But you can't really care about that I don't think, you have to like it yourself. A lot of guys still try to say 'I'm bi' to ease themselves into being a full fledged ****** like they always already were.
I disagree with Andrew Sullivan, he seemed to always think that being accepted by breeders was the most important thing for gay men. Nah, liking/accepting ourselves is way more important. Why should I care if I Make a straight man throw up? Why should I have to police myself 24/7 just to be a little more likeable. Obviously,
I'm not for them lol.