*Inspired by Numbers' thread and Allie's comment therein*
Who do you think is definitely not in your quadra and may be your conflictor?
This could actually be a useful thread if the personal insults are kept to a minimum
*Inspired by Numbers' thread and Allie's comment therein*
Who do you think is definitely not in your quadra and may be your conflictor?
This could actually be a useful thread if the personal insults are kept to a minimum
Last edited by female; 07-08-2009 at 06:58 PM.
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
smccosker, Jimbean, unefille, BulletsandDoves, khamelion, cyclops, niffweed17, Subt, and Carla.
the way that people approach this type of thread is by listing people with whom they are most irked, or with whom they dislike most fervently. while i could do this, i can only think of one person on this board who i dislike and believe might possibly be my conflictor as a result of this dislike. currently, i am more inclined to think of that person as a different (but similar) type. the perceptive will easily discern the identity of this individual.
i compiled a tentative list of 23 individuals who i dislike intensely (including the individual above). many of the individuals on this list are predictable, though some of them may not be. of these 23, i currently type 17 of them as betas, 1 as gamma, 3 as alpha, and 2 as undecided. of these 23 individuals, i type none of them as my conflictor, and regard it as a possibility for perhaps 4 or 5 of them.
in addition, i came up with an auxiliary list of people with whom i have severe problems communicating but don't dislike as individuals. this list contains 5 people, distributed 3 alphas, 1 beta, 1 delta according to my typings. none of them are my conflictor, per my typings.
in conclusion, this is a poor test of conflictor-ness.
None of the people I would choose for this I predict to be my conflictor.
subT, discojoe, joy, cracka, kam, ezra, the ENTp lesbian girl, kioshi or whoever that cat woman is .. yeah she's a dumbass. Gilly, for gayness. glamourama cuz she's stupid.
Last edited by crazedrat; 07-08-2009 at 09:54 PM.
Who do I think is my conflictor?
Bardia, Calenwen.
Who do I get irked by/do not want in my quadra, conflictor or no?
Implied, Subt, Expat, Ritella, JuJu, Mikemex, Ashton, Hoodrat
These people consistently rub me the wrong way, I can't seem to get through to, and/or have a distant world view. I don't necessarily dislike these people, but they all tend to piss me off.
(They are all Fi/Te valuing imo fwiw)
Last edited by ArchonAlarion; 07-10-2009 at 11:06 PM.
The end is nigh
1981slater. I'll fight you, man!
cyclops
cyclops
cyclops
It's understandable because we normally avoid our conflictors, and rarely does it reach the point of looking like a textbook conflicting relationship. The types I get into the worst kinds of arguments with are usually my comparative and mirage (LSI and LSE) because we usually are interested in similar things, thus we have things to disagree about.
The saddest ESFj
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My conflictor has never dueled anybody, I have no reason to suspect.
You are projecting. The way you view "conflictors" and the world isn't the way conflictors (and the world) objectively actually is.It's understandable because we normally avoid our conflictors, and rarely does it reach the point of looking like a textbook conflicting relationship.
Assuming you are even typing those people correctly, people can not get along for non-socionics based reasons too.The types I get into the worst kinds of arguments with are usually my comparative and mirage (LSI and LSE) because we usually are interested in similar things, thus we have things to disagree about.
expat, as far as smooth communication goes. But this is hard to answer, cause there are people here I dislike/disdain/want to kill, yet I never 'duel' or w/e with him, just because. Whereas there are others (who know who they are) that I do value/find interesting, but whom I fight with more often. Maybe this says something, I don't know. I do often find myself responding to completely incompatible people with a sort of indifference; the fights occur when someone is compatible with you, but not enough to keep things smooth all the time.
*edit: yeah, I think there's something to this. If I like certain qualities in someone, it will only enhance my dislike for their other qualities (assuming the existence of both). So, I'll almost quarrel with them to regain a foothold on the compatibility derived from the interaction of our respective complimentary qualities, and extinguish the others. Weirdly polarizing like that. And with those whom I am not attracted to/compatible with at all, I don't even care enough to exert myself towards such a thing.
4w3-5w6-8w7
Arguing with your conflictor is probably one of the least productive activities one can engage in--like getting life lessons from bullets and doves.
The saddest ESFj
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Nick brings up a really good point imo... I have never thought about this before but the people who I TRULY would not get along with IRL I barely pay any real attention to and do not exert myself into arguing with them. This indifference is definitely a part of my interactions with Delta quadra members most of the time because to be honest, it's like I don't have the patience and/or I just realize they have very opposing points of view that will never be truly reconciled with mine and thus, just accept what they have to say with a grain of salt.
On that note I would have to say those that I TRULY would probably conflict with IRL but I pay little real mind to on here are:
Implied, Jessica129, FDG (scary lmao), Slacker Mom. That's all I can think of now.
Those that IRK me to no end sometimes and yet I would likely go party with them or have a bonding session are:
Gilly, B&D, Juju (now... what does this say about his real type? ehh. but he's damn annoying still).
That hiutzpotz and ephemeros guys, supreme dispensers of BS
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Nobody here would really be worth my time but if I had to pick I'd say either crazedrat or cyclops.
“No psychologist should pretend to understand what he does not understand... Only fools and charlatans know everything and understand nothing.” -Anton Chekhov
http://kevan.org/johari?name=Bardia0
http://kevan.org/nohari?name=Bardia0
YOU THINK I'M GAY TOO??? >_<;
I will due anyone, except people who feel too peaceful, like SlackerMom and tereg; I mean if they came at me, it would be all good, but I don't think I could actually instigate anything with people like them; I would just feel guilty or something.
But yeah, I would spar with discojoe because he's actually a good duelist, but I would attempt to kill cyclops and deante: cyclops for being fucking stupid, and deante for just being a worthless human being.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
*taps fingers menacingly*
Excellent...
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Shit, I forgot to add a </sarcasm> to my last post.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
I AM NOW AMENDING THIS TO HKKMR
Lol.
lol violent love. wasn't as good as the other version though
4w3-5w6-8w7
happy birthday fdg