Hi everyone!
Hi everyoneI am new here. I'm lately thinking about my type. Could you help me find my type?
Tell me about yourself.
Hello! I’m spontaneous and curious. I like long walks, spending time with my friends and I really love my bed (my mystery lover :3). I don’t like talking about work, people behavior (but sometimes if there are my friends I like thinking and talking about their future and how I can help them to improve their reality) and money. I love trips, hitchhiking. Sometimes I’m so lazy that world could ended in my bed, but sometimes I have some many energy, that I could infected other. My friends always describe me like a person who has a lot of new ideas, witty, intelligent but also sometimes I could be tactless, embarrassing, heartless or categoric. Sometimes I have a lot of second-thoughts about my choices, but also I think that I’m flexible and is easy to me to drop everything and do crazy thing. I think that one of my weakness and the same time my advantage is my sense of humor. It’s weakness because sometimes people don’t know when I’m joking, but when I look at this like an advantage - it helps me not to give up when hard time comes.
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?
I studied law. Law is the most theoretical field and needs short, good answers. When I’ve been in fourth semester, I decided to choose employment legislation, because it’s always connected with people. Now, when all my mates from studies doing something like “aplications” to improve their laws skills, I’m working for corporation in HR department. I think that for now, this is good decision, but I don’t think that I will do this for all of my life. I see so many paths, so I would rather try everything what is connected with HR or law 😊 What I like in my work? I think, that there are so many options I can choose, but also I think that this could be some trap (because of too many options and hesitation). Also I think, that even I didn’t like studying law, this opened me to many ways which I can choose, and because of it I didn’t think that it was a total waste of my time. Sometimes I think that anything I choose, it wouldn’t be good enough.
What are your values, and why?
I really appreciate, when people, who surrounds me, care about comfort, have good taste of music and love cooking. Also I like people who pull me out of my home and brings me to parties, other people and care about my health. Sometimes I think that I cannot make this stuff alone, even if I really try.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?
Nothing special. Sometimes I’m reading articles, learning english from youtubers, writing with my friends, do some physical exercise to improve my health and for be in good shape. But I would rather do exercises which are comfortable for me (f.e. some long walks), than doing hard and strict exercise and diet to get short effects.
Describe your relations with family and friends. What do you like and dislike about them?
It hard to say about my relations. I don’t have a lot friends, maybe a few. I think that I couldn’t sense it. I don’t know when relations starts and ends, sometimes I don’t feel boundaries and I’m asking for a really private things, which aren’t propriate. Also I think that it’s very hard for me to keep the relationship. I can be too overprotective and in the same time didn’t pay attention to that. What else? I think that I have a really strong connection with my brother, he’s my friends. I like spending time with him, even we don’t speak and doing other things. I don’t remember about calling to my parents or grandma and this is only a duty for me. I like about my family and friends that I’m not feel wirdo with them, I can be 100% me. What I dislike about them? That sometimes they haven’t time for me and I’m feeling that they just forget that I am exist, also sometimes they are too honest with me and can say that I did something wrong or inappropriate.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
Sensitivity, protectiveness, warmth, good sense of humor, trust.
What do people generally see as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
My boyfriend always tell me, that he appreciate me because of my strength, independence, intelligence, warmth and sense of humor. He describes this in sentence: “you have couriosity in your eyes”.
I like in myself that I’m independent and also I can to put on a brave face even in really tough situations. Because of that, I think that nothing can destroy me.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?
Sometimes my friends tell me that I can’t feel other people barriers and because of it, I can hurt them.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?
I think that in my career I can rely on myself and doing it good, but if I have to care about my health, comfort or relations – I wanted in that fields some help.
What things do you dislike doing? What things do you enjoy more than others?
I don’t like repeatable activities, like a work with documents. I like multitasking, when I couldn't feel bored.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?
There are a lot of plans. They just show up.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?
I would be travelling, meeting with friends or organizing parties.
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?
I usually stay calm, even when someone react too emotionally. Sometimes I can tell with calm and cold tone, that I don’t appreciate to treat me like a “emotionally bin” (it means being too overemotional to me).
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.
Sometimes, people think that if I am a girl, I probably feel lost and their should help me. That deduction is always wrong. Sometimes my face can tell other, that I am sad or disappointed and always I must explain that is my typical facial expression.
What did you do last Friday?
Stayed at home and celebrated silence and loneliness.
What are your religious or spiritual beliefs and why do you hold them?
I’m atheist. I believe only in hope and human possibilities, their brain, heart.
Would you ever be interested in starting a business? Why or why not? What role would you play in it? What kind of business would it be?
I don’t think so. It’s too much for me and I would feel too overwhelmed. I can give an advice or idea, but I don’t want to be a head of this.
What kind of work environment do you prefer? What do you look for in a job?
Independence. Work should improve my skills and gives me opportunities. Without it, I quickly get bored and quit this job.
What is or was your favorite school subject and why?
Literature and english lessons.
What were you like as a kid? How have you changed since you were a child?
I was curious, independent and friendly kido. I usually spent all day with my friends in fun. When I came to school, I separated from my village friends, also my mother started be mentally ill and I became shy and outsider.
Do you like kids? Why or why not?
I like kids. They are so cute. I always think that they are small copy of their parents 😊.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I would give my child a lot of independence and taught them life without Internet. I would rather give them a board games, sign up for extra classes. I just want them to think, be creative and intelligent and always rely on themselves.
What do you do if you're not getting what you want? What approach do you use?
I rather give up, than fight for it.
Are you comfortable taking leadership roles? In what areas? Why or why not?
No. I don’t like be overwhelmed with expectations.
How often do you get angry? What kinds of things make you angry?
I can’t say how often. Sometimes I really get angry, especially when I cannot find thing that I really need at that moment or I get different food than that I ordered.
Best wishes,
dormeur.
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