COME ON EXE-Fe! ESE over EIE but we need more on Ni VS Si.
Networking people person who's outgoing and planning group activity. "Social butterfly". Funny, nice, courteous, spirited, expressive, communicative, keeps convo light and going energetically. Likes the loud people (that one ESFJ in MBTI reference!). +The entire deepness discussion. Endlessly talkative and constant mood EFj level. Fe-lead!
Fi quadra's 100% excluded, your partner is treated almost as everyone else with just minor difference, relationship concerns and liking (e.g., music) is there but your ethical focus is on people, objectively, as a whole. Best example: your `Even if I don't like them, we can get along, it's not being fake just polite´ - mentality. And the opening up thing, you do better at universal social situation as you say. Fi ignoring.
The creative function was hard, I had conflicting notions on this so that's still open. My take on it, take it with a grain of salt: You
are time/schedule and future aware, but also look after chores decently, even if you don't care or simply aren't experienced in it. Conflict awareness but aversion though point to ESE, you underestimate your confrontation spirit demonstrative. The let's not start World War III thing - yes you are knowing of clashes but circumvent them. Alpha democratic and not Beta aristocratic, you can connect with everybody, no bias there, and group think is missing - friends are just friends. More reconciling than going against the grain. Because you're the Fe-subtype, the PoLR isn't too pronounced, but
certainly is the most lacking - yet it's valued! With personality typing systems + teaching, Ti-seeking really is there.
So -
Questions to get more accurate results about ESFj or ENFj:
Would you prioritize comfort over having your life mapped out? Or the other way around? Do you think ahead or stay focused in the moment to take care of people and aesthetics? Does dramatism/symbolism appeal to you?
Cherry on top: Enneagram 2w1-ish, tritype 279, social instinct first.