I am having a difficult time picking between the two. I don't think I am expressive enough to be a 1w2 or passive enough for a 1w9. I'm not sure what a 6w7 looks like or a 6w5.
I am having a difficult time picking between the two. I don't think I am expressive enough to be a 1w2 or passive enough for a 1w9. I'm not sure what a 6w7 looks like or a 6w5.
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First I wouldn't worry about the wings, they are like added zest or flavor to the root personality. The personality type is like say chicken, the wings are like, sweet and sour chicken vs sesame chicken vs ginger soy chicken vs you get the point.
Anyways its very hard to determine your type by expecting all the pieces to fall into place right at the start, the enneagram has a lot of ways to add additional flavors to the same types and for this reason on the surface people of the same type may look completely different. I mean just consider the instinctual stackings, tritype, triads, and wings.
So I'd suggest you first peg yourself as one of the nine types in a very straight-foward practical manner or at least rule out some types or come to a set of types that matches you then play through figuring out which one is your match from this set.
Anyways enough of that, lets get down to the way you can split the differences between 6's and 1's.
-Sixes are part of the Thinking Triad
-Sixes are part of the Intensity Harmonic Group
-Sixes are part of the Compliant Triad
-Sixes are considered Embracing Approval Seeking by the Directional Theory
Contrast this with
-Ones are part of the Instinctual Triad
-Ones are part of the Competency Harmonic Group
-Sixes are part of the Compliant Triad
-Ones are consider Confronting Ideal Seeking by The Directional Theory
What all this means I'll post in a while, don't have the time to explain these differences, but they are all key to drawing the line and illuminating the differences between the two types.
Also sorry if it seems like I am taking a long time to get to the good part, I have to crank it all out from the basic principles to get to it, give it a little time and you will see.
My husband is an E6. that's all I have to say.
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You might want to check out my 6w7 thread.
1s are not known for being terribly expressive--actually it's the opposite. 1w9s are like vulcans, 1w2s are like nuns/clergy.
6s are very distrusting of authority and don't like the 1ish tendency to make up arbitrary rules. The conflict between God and Eve from the bible is sort of like the conflict between a 1 and a 6. Who is he to tell me I can't eat from the tree of knowledge???
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That is not ALL 6's, its can be a 6, but it also can be a 1-9 really. Distrust of authority is not a major concept of the 6, issues with trust yes, but distrust of authority; No.
6's are likely to actually put their faith into a system for security purpose to alleviate anxiety. They may even ally with another authority if they fear a competeing one. Then again they may ally with a revolution or movement of people if they are afraid of an oppresive system. Sixes are security based though and compliant embracing approval seekers, they are out to form allegiances for security. This is characteristic of sixes because sevens deal with anxiety by a sort of special brand of positive thinking and denial and fives deal with anxiety by intellectual mastery and withdrawl. Sevens are too free-spirited to be bound by an authority for securit and Fives are too withdrawn to be bound by an authority (they care more about their inner cerebral worlds).
In other words 6's are just as likely to trust authority as mistrust it, thats why they have issues with trust, they struggle to figure out which people/authorities are trustworthy and which aren't.
1's also don't make arbitrary rules, 1's fear that without some kind of system of justice rage/anger and instinctual desire will run rampart unchecked. For them the contrast is that its not about security, its about controlling the visceral instinctive animalistic fiery rage/anger/desire primal energies people have and subordinating them to a productive system where people can coexist.
6's don't care if they lived in a debauch evil system of primalistic taboo, as long as they feel protected and safe and not anxious - 1's do care, in fact a one would likely see it as morally heroic to place ones need for safety below ones need for morality/justice/order - a 6 would see it as stupidity in most cases.
Saying something like 1's are the arbritary rule meisters and 6's are the mistrusting anti-authoritians is a gross over-simplication of the motivations that bely the types. While I see where you were going with it, a major way to circumvent confusion is to ask WHY the person mistrusts authority... if its out of a kind of paranoid feeling that the government is out to get them, then a 6 fits, but keep in mind alot of 6's are also gaurdians of social institutions.
6's are just security oriented anxious/thinking types.
While at their worst they may seem neurotic, alarmist, and paranoid. At their best they are very proactive, loyal, stable/secure. There is no type in the enneagram personality system that is considered to be just naturally great or naturally bad, all types have their low states and high.
No, I don't really know anything about tritypes. I'll have to look into that.
I relate to all of these ones.
I guess I relate more to the one definition you gave.
I read some descriptions a while ago and I guess that was the impression I got from them. I should probably go look them all up again.
All of the first paragraph lol. I don't relate to the purposefully screwing up part. Though sometimes I just kind of say screw this assignment or whatever because I don't feel like perfecting it. Sometimes I think I'm never going to find the one because there is something wrong with everyone. I've never seen Dexter but Lila sounds interesting. I wouldn't say I make decisions quickly most of the time. I usually try to think things through carefully, but when they do go wrong I do get upset somewhat. I'm working on controlling my anxiety due to perfection though. I might just be a 1 with anxiety issues that make me think I'm a 6 sometimes.
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Yea there are many techniques to e-typing, that is an effective one considering you take time to observe your own weaknesses/downfalls/disintegrations from time to time.
Also I am not so sure it goes without saying, I think a lot of people can get tripped up by the whole strength/weakness idea. They type based on weaknesses to look for a rationalization for their errors and they type based on strengths to make themselves feel better or have themselves believe that they have some great potential in some area. Ideally people shouldn't type with these in mind imo, they should just try to be objective and accurate and then after they have come up with a type they can use the knowledge of their weaknesses/strengths to help manage themselves better through a higher amount of knowledge about their personalities.
Well its likely you don't see things like that at all, because I wasn't writting a person account of your personality.... I was aiming to illustrate a basic concept, I was working on the theoritical level and not the practical.
Either your typing is incorrect or we have our wires crossed... or perhaps both, at any rate you need to elaborate on how you conflict with this so I can actually figure out which is the case.
Isn't distrust part of issues with trust? I experience anxiety about about where I've placed my trust, and I actively distrust authorities I am "against".
Yes.6's are likely to actually put their faith into a system for security purpose to alleviate anxiety.
Yes.They may even ally with another authority if they fear a competeing one. Then again they may ally with a revolution or movement of people if they are afraid of an oppresive system.
Okay, that's pretty much it, but understand that as head center it is felt as an actively practical/logical/principled decision to ally with an authority, rather than a fear based or emotional choice (although it is rooted in that). So, a 6 would come up with explanations and reasonings for their strategizing.Sixes are security based though and compliant embracing approval seekers, they are out to form allegiances for security. This is characteristic of sixes because sevens deal with anxiety by a sort of special brand of positive thinking and denial and fives deal with anxiety by intellectual mastery and withdrawl. Sevens are too free-spirited to be bound by an authority for securit and Fives are too withdrawn to be bound by an authority (they care more about their inner cerebral worlds).
Just clarifying
But my decisions to trust are not random or un-thoughtout.In other words 6's are just as likely to trust authority as mistrust it, thats why they have issues with trust, they struggle to figure out which people/authorities are trustworthy and which aren't.
A 1's rules are not arbitrary to the 1, but they are to the 6.1's also don't make arbitrary rules, 1's fear that without some kind of system of justice rage/anger and instinctual desire will run rampart unchecked. For them the contrast is that its not about security, its about controlling the visceral instinctive animalistic fiery rage/anger/desire primal energies people have and subordinating them to a productive system where people can coexist.
maybe an unprincipled cp 6...6's don't care if they lived in a debauch evil system of primalistic taboo, as long as they feel protected and safe and not anxious - 1's do care, in fact a one would likely see it as morally heroic to place ones need for safety below ones need for morality/justice/order - a 6 would see it as stupidity in most cases.
What about someone who mistrusts the government because of the nature or centralized power, and of historical demonstrations of state corruption? Healthy 6's (moreso 6w5) are probably the most careful and analytical out of all the enneatypes in choosing beliefs, values, and ideaologies, etc.Saying something like 1's are the arbritary rule meisters and 6's are the mistrusting anti-authoritians is a gross over-simplication of the motivations that bely the types. While I see where you were going with it, a major way to circumvent confusion is to ask WHY the person mistrusts authority... if its out of a kind of paranoid feeling that the government is out to get them, then a 6 fits, but keep in mind alot of 6's are also gaurdians of social institutions.
The guardian of social institutions sounds like an sp/so or so/sp 6.
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Your completely correct, sixes are going to actively distrust authorities they are "against" or they suspect of being untrustworthy.
I probably didn't take the greatest effort to shed out exactly what I mean but all I am saying is that by no means are sixes on autopilot, always mantaining an attitude of distrust to all authorities in all cases. Sixes only distrust authorities they feel threatened by or anxious of, at other times sixes may turn to authorities for protection and support, especiall when they have logically evaluated those authorities to be worthy of trust.
(Also its not just feeling threatened, I implicitely assume that they also spend time thinking intelligently to evaluate the threat in a logical manner)
Yes thats correct, I didn't mean to imply otherwise. To elaborate I think the exact way this works for sixes is they are likely to spend a lot of time thinking to evaluate the nature of the security that will arise from their decision. This differs for example from a 5's thinking in that a 5 wants to understand how something works to alleviate anxiety. 5's think to have mastery and control, 6's think to have security and support.
This may sound like a partiality to 5's but really 5's can have their problems that 6's don't have.
Alright, I can see how what I said seems to imply that, but it isn't. When I wrote that I wasn't talking about an individual six bouncing randomly and uneducated from place to place. I was talking about a large group of sixes, that they will end up in different places each for their own individual thought out reasons.
Alright, fair enough, but I was taking arbitrary to mean "without a deeper motivation". The 1's rules do have a motivation, they are not so much rules as they are expressions of their personality in a sense.
Yea definitally, I was using an extreme example to draw a parallel... sixes in some extreme cases could possibly ally themselves with someone they instinctively knew was "evil and morally debauch" if they offered them protection and support. But a one would never, as it essentially goes against the whole basis of the one.
I could do frame the same argument switching the roles if it disturbs you that I am kind of giving the 6 a hard time.
Agreed, I wasn't saying 6's are needy and cling to authority (maybe 6-2-1 so/sp)... I was just saying that 6's come in a variety of packages. Some for their own individual reasons believe government A to be safe and trustworthy while others believe government A to be distrustful and oppresive. Being a six only defines a psychological motive, not what your actual beliefs about a particular government or person is.
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When a 1 wants to implement a rule, they usually are unable to explain the rationale well enough to a 6. The 1 being a gut type, it's not all that clear to them so they just look for the easiest way to justify themselves. The justification is sought after the initial gut feeling.
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@Haveluciddreamz: Okay, thanks for the clarifications.
@e-sheep: Right. A 1 is pushing around themselves and objects/people in their jurisdiction to satisfy the yearning for an ideal state of order and suppression of chaotic rage (like Lucid described). This is -/0 or "confronting/ideal seeking". The 6's analytical reasoning aims to be objective; their surface direction is towards (attached) and their inner direction is acceptance seeking. The product needs to be something that is consistent/reliable that others can be "convinced of" (that others can accept). The 1's ideal seeking on the other hand is not for you, me, they, or we; it's for the 1 and it doesn't need to satisfy anyone else's reasoning, harmony, or desired image (as with the 6, 9, and 3).
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Funny I've never seen it exactly that way, I mostly agree but I've always seen for 1's the instinct playing into the actual concept of having rules in general and not so much concerning a specific rule.
In other words the gut is concerning the issue and deeper philosophy of "Why society needs rules", rather than concerning the issue of "Why society need THIS rule", they are more than willing to explain out the reasoning behind a specific rule, but this reasoning may be perceived as flawed because on the deeper level because a person may not share their philosophy on "Why society needs rules" that seems self-evident and instinctive to them.
Basically even one's think to some extent, every type is capable of thinking, not just the thinking types.
Thats the practical answer, upon deeper inspection the reason for this is fascinating. Consider the presence of a thinking type in the one's tritype. This thinking deals with issues of anxiety/dread/uncertainty/confusion, whereas their instinct deals with the more instinctual and visceral issues of anger/rage/lust/desire. The question is though; does the thinking type serve the instinct type or is the thinking type merely a seperate entity in and of itself? I personally am intuitively drawn to think of it as interconnected, that their can be anxiety/dread/uncertainity/confusion generated by the presence of something instinctual that requires thinking through and vice versa, that their is issues of anger/rage/lust/desire generated by the presence of certain anxieties, neurosis', feelings of dread/uncertainity. This observation cements the interconnected nature of the two triads and explains why in all practicality people can both think, feel, and have gut instincts with still being only one type. The e-type doesn't define so much a strict division in their subconcious, but identifies a sort of hub for all of the interconnected motivations of the subconious, a hub that is most strongly connected to their outward ego and affects their behavior the most.