Hug Style Poll
I'm making a database about different type's preferred hugging styles. Please fill out this form. If your style is not suggested, please point that out.
Gender: Male/Female
Type: ...
Pressure: Gentle/Firm
Speed: Slow/Sudden
Location: Waist/Neck/Chest
Length: Long/Short
Sound: Verbal/Silent
Motion: Still/Shifting/Mobile
Ease: Huggable/Hesitant/Reluctant
Last edited by DirectorAbbie; 12-17-2008 at 12:24 AM.
Gender: Male
Type: IEI
Pressure: Firm
Speed: Slow
Location: Um, everywhere
Length: Long
Sound: Verbal
Motion: Still
Ease: Huggable
Gender:Female
Type: IEI
Pressure: Gentle
Speed: Slow
Location: Neck/Chest
Length: Long but shorter if it's more casual
Sound: Silent
Motion: Still
Ease: Huggable
IEI-Fe 4w3
Thanks, BulletsAndDoves, redbaron, and Starfall! Starfall, for your "Ease" I'll put reluctant.
More data, people. The more the merrier!Here are a few I got from my workplace, including me.
Gender Type Pressure Speed Location Length Sound Motion Ease
Female SEE Gentle Slow Waist Long Verbal Still Huggable
Female SLE Firm Sudden Neck Long Verbal Still Huggable
Female LSE Firm Slow Chest Long Silent Shifting Hesitant
Gender: Male
Type: SEI
Pressure: Soffffttttt
Speed: Sudden
Location: Chest
Length: Short
Sound: Why would you actually talk?
Motion: Shifting
Ease: Huggable
lol
Last edited by Mediator Kam; 12-17-2008 at 01:35 AM.
D-SEI9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
Gender: Male
Type: ...
Pressure: Firm
Speed: Slow
Location: Waist/Neck/Chest (what?)
Length: Long
Sound: Silent (sometimes i say something in a softish way after a duration)
Motion: Still (sometimes I'm kind of close before I close)
Ease: Huggable/Hesitant (I can be hesitant if people aren't used to hugging, or are too quick, I often won't really hug people if they want just a short hug, because it's pointless)
I tried to remember the last time I hugged; and it came back to me - I hugged this girl kind of quickly, a couple of times, but I had just met her ..
Usually I don't really hug people that I don't know so well, and it's for longer ...
The most romantic thing evar is to hug somebody and whisper in their ear mmmm.
I was thinking of hug as in, hugging my sweetheart- or a really good friend. I don't really hug anybody else...why would I. That would be awkward.
This list seems interesting. What is the ultimate goal of this particular experiment?
So...Originally Posted by Carla
Gender: Female
Type: ?
Pressure: ?
Speed: ?
Location: ?
Length: ?
Sound: ?
Motion: ?
Ease: Exclusive/Unattainable
Don't you even hug family or little kids...or animals?
*whispers in bulletsanddoves ear* You're really ugly.
I like making charts.
Aww thank you. =) Now I'm gonna puke and you have to lick it up and then spit it back down my throat! LOVE!!!*whispers in bulletsanddoves ear* You're really ugly.
Do you get off on that knid of thing.
No, of course not- I was being silly.
I'm sure there's a porn for that though. Ew.
Well that's good, let's keep it platonic.
If you don't ask, I won't tell.
Gender: Male
Type: ESFJ
Pressure: Gentle, unless it's a guy I haven't seen in a long time, then I guess it's usually firm.
Speed: Slow
Location: Waist/Chest
Length: Short
Sound: Verbal
Motion: Still Though, I do the pat on the back thing normally.
Ease: Huggable towards women, Hesitant more often than not though.
A person's gender makes a rather large difference in how I hug them though. Of course, any of these are likely to change depending on my relationship to the person being hugged.
Last edited by cracka; 12-16-2008 at 12:39 AM.
haha Carla, your answers made me laugh.
and is anyone surprised that an ESE (cracka) would put "verbal" over "silent". My husband never stops talking, really. Unless I tell him point blank "I need to go to sleep now" as I did last night. He was just chatting away in bed.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Fixed.
Gender: Female
Type: SLI
Pressure: Gentle
Speed: Sudden
Location: Waist
Length: Short
Sound: Awkward giggling
Motion: Still
Ease: Hesitant
Gender:Female
Type: Fi-ESI
Pressure: Gentle
Speed: Sudden
Location: Chest
Length: Short
Sound: Silent
Motion: Usually patting on back or shoulder
Ease: Hesitant
Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
A combination of all of them. Variation.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
I have 16 entries! 84 more and I can consider it an accurate source of information!
Erm. I'm a very tactile person by nature but most of the people I'm close to aren't, so I find I have to restrict myself to when they absolutely need it, so my data's a bit skewed.
Gender: Male.
Type: Probably EII.
Pressure: Depends on the huggee's emotional state. Usually rather soft.
Speed: Slow
Location: Again, depends. Usually around the shoulders or just below.
Length: Generally pretty short; again, varies based on the person's emotions.
Sound: AGAIN, it depends on the person. Some people react better to having comforting sounds, some just want you to be a warm wall of comfort for a little bit.
Motion: See above. Slight rocking motions tend to help a bit when people are crying, I've found.
Ease: Huggable, but gradually becoming more hesitant. You start to stop wanting to hug people if they don't want to hug you.
Gender: Male
Type: ENTP for now with an Fe overdeveloped side (but open to debate even amongst myself)
Pressure: Gentle with moments of firmness
Speed: Sudden
Location: Chest but depends where my head goes
Length: the Longer the better
Sound: Verbal
Motion: Shifting lots of shifting
Ease: you tell me
ENTP:wink:
ALPHA
Ease refers to how well you respond to a hug and how likely you are to initiate one.Ease: you tell me
What's a "verbal" hug?
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
Sorry. When my eyes get tired, I shut them. And I see no reason to stop using the rest of my body when it's not tired.
Saying something during a hug.What's a "verbal" hug?
Ah ok.
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
Male or female?
Pressure: Is it more of a caress or a squeeze?
Speed: Do you suddenly have your arms around them, or is it more gradual?
Location: Approximately where do you usually hug the recipiant?
Length: Do they last more than a few seconds?
Sound: Do you talk during hugs?
Motion: Do you move your arms during a hug (shifting)? Do you end up in a different location after a hug (mobile)?
lol - stop supervising me
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
Yo Abbie, I have decided that I actually hug more softly than hard. So change it grrl.
D-SEI
This is me and my dual being scientific together
when the going's good everybody is hugable.
ENTP
Gender Type Pressure Speed Location Length Sound Motion Ease
Female SEE Gentle Slow Waist Long Verbal Still Huggable
Female SLE Firm Sudden Neck Long Verbal Still Huggable
Female LSE Firm Sudden Chest Long Silent Shifting Hesitant
Male IEI Firm Slow Everywhere Long Verbal Still Huggable
Female IEI Gentle Slow Neck/Chest Long Silent Still Huggable
Female IEI Gentle Slow Waist Short Silent Still Reluctant
Male SEI Gentle Sudden Chest Short Silent Shifting Huggable
Male SLE Firm Slow Chest Long Silent Still Hesitant
Male ESE Gentle Slow Waist/Chest Short Verbal Still Hesitant
Female LII Absent Slow Nowhere Short Silent Shifting Exclusive
Female SLI Gentle Sudden Waist Short Verbal Still Hesitant
Female ESE Gentle Sudden Chest Short Silent Shifting Hesitant
Male SEE Gentle Sudden Chest Long Silent Mobile Huggable
Male IEE Gentle Slow Chest Short Verbal Still Huggable
Male EII Gentle Slow Chest Short Silent Shifting Huggable
Female ESE Gentle Slow Chest Short Silent Still Huggable
Female SEI Firm Slow Neck Long Verbal Still Huggable
Male ILI Firm Slow Neck Long Silent Mobile Reluctant
Male ILE Gentle Sudden Chest Long Verbal Mobile Huggable
Female SEI Gentle Sudden Neck/Chest Short Silent Shifting Huggable
This thread has been re-bumpified because I want more entries.
"re-bumpified" very nice.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Gender: Female
Type: EII
Pressure: Firm
Speed: Slow. but surprise hugs are good.
Location: Waist
Length: Long
Sound: Verbal. but no wussy sounds
Motion: Shifting
Ease: Huggable
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
I'm thinking about changing one of my answers. I think I prefer a firm hug to a light one.
IEI-Fe 4w3
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