I'm torn between duals and semi duals.
I should just shoot myself.
Duals
Identicals
Mirrors
Activity Partners
Semi-duals
Comparatives
Conflictors
Super-Egos
Quasi-identicals
Conflictors
Illusionaries
Look-a-likes
Benefit-partners
Supervision-partners
ALPHAS IN GENERAL
BETAS IN GENERAL
GAMMAS IN GENERAL
DELTAS IN GENERAL
All types
other - explain
I'm torn between duals and semi duals.
I should just shoot myself.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Hmmm, well several of my best friends through the years have been IEIs as well as my brother (with whom I have a very good relationship). So I guess I should vote identicals. I've also had close friendships with a lookalike and a beneficiary. I married my supervisee and our marriage is a good one in many ways albeit imperfect. Over the past year or so I've become friends with my dual and that's really great. Easy once it got started and totally comfortable.
So I suppose my answer is: identicals and duals. Although I will point out that when I have a problem that needs a solution, I don't gain a lot from talking to my identicals about it. They see things in the same way and although I love being understood by them, they don't have much to add to the problem-solving end of things. So in terms of giving me a different perspective, I appreciate my beneficiary friend. (also, the lookalikes rarely have anything helpful to add--they're too much like me but they're great in every other way!)
IEI-Fe 4w3
We could add more options, or change them, or reset everything, but not make multiple voting possible, apparently.
The types I've had the best relations with are dual, semi-dual, and mirror.
, LIE, ENTj logical subtype, 8w9 sx/sp
Originally Posted by implied
Well, if two of my sisters are ISFp - tentatively for now - then semi-dual. Otherwise, mirror, and I'm slowly getting to know a couple of duals... which is good so far.
ESFp's, ENTj's and INTj's
...the human race will disappear. Other races will appear and disappear in turn. The sky will become icy and void, pierced by the feeble light of half-dead stars. Which will also disappear. Everything will disappear. And what human beings do is just as free of sense as the free motion of elementary particles. Good, evil, morality, feelings? Pure 'Victorian fictions'.
INTp
I say Identicals and Duals are equally the best.
Really there isn't much difference. Two sides of the same coin, or the same fucking coin with both heads (like two-face!) - what the fuck? It's still just a bleeding coin that works. I don't see duals outwardly giving you all the right answers 100% of the time either, anyway. I think both intertypes naturally restrain themselves from being too preachy and obnoxious with helping you- because that IS inherently condescending and doesn't work. I laugh at the self help book-y ness of it all. On the flip side, I think when your dual/identical is upset with you they can get too wordy & emotionally desperate (as they really give a shit, but maybe this is only a beta dual thing) as they know they can find the advice they're giving you useful for themselves... as they want to be together with you on the journey.
I get the whole thing about not idealizing duals and not running your conflictor over with a truck everytime you see each other, but really- if you really accept socionics, then you accept that you can't ever have a good relationship with your conflictor and that supervision is innately annoying, etc. And no, I don't think sex with your conflictor is hot- but maybe that's because I don't have fucked up views about sex like 99% of people.
The whole premise of socionics is some people get along and some don't, regardless of hobbies and lifestyles! That *is* interesting, and people want to know why. Also if you weren't such a shallow, vapid whore and got to know your conflictor in a deeper way - the closer you got, the further you'd yank yourself apart from them. If you can't accept that this naturally happens with your conflictors (even though you might think they are hot and are certain you can get along, which the description even says), how can you understand socionics?
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I've had the best relationships with people in this order:
Semi-Duals
Identicals
Mirrors
Haven't had much experience with duals.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
My bestbest friend is my supervisee, she makes me feel awesome about myself, but I can feel the strain sometimes.
Then my other best friend, who is fucking awesome and we can just be crazy together, is my mirror. My sister is my mirror, we get along awesome most of the time, but we get into a lot of fights.
I also have this raw animalistic connection with my duals, we never really speak and I don't have relationships with either because of my stupid feelings of neither of us being good enough. But I am getting other that and actually responding to them...
I have never met another IEI, activity person or a semi-dual, I don't think...
dual > illusionary > activity
INTp
sx/sp
no, not really. it's about the most complimentary types of information exchange, not about relationships per se. and then saying that you "cant ever" have a good relationship with a certain type.. even if you meant only your conflictor.. is also a stretch. You would have to define the terms more closely to make anything close to that kind of statement.
most stable relations in my life so far have been with lookalike, activity, and benefit partners (ISTp more than INFp). I have a dual relation at work that has steadily grown, but we are not, and will not, get closer.
Do you mean a Dual who has another Dual influence ? As in if I were IEI, I'd get along best with an SLE who has had another IEI in their life for long before me ?
OR did you actually mean to say an Identical, so another IEI with SLE influence? Cause I think THAT would also be highly, highly awesome =D
What you said doesn't make too much sense to me, it would mean SLE with SLE influence
I've had the best relations with Scarlett Lux
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
LSI dual
Beta extrovert from NF club.
Well, my best friend is my supervisor and we get on great. He helps me in confronting and solving everyday problems, and I get him to pull back and relax since he seems incapable of doing this on his own.
I'm married to my "extinguishment" partner. Not sure what extinguishment correlates to in the poll above, but we have very similar interests that we share. The difference is in how we analyze problems and the conclusions we draw. She relies more on emotion, while I am better able to detach my emotions from a subject and draw logical inferences.
The only dual I'm certain I've met is my father. Our relationship is functional, but we can't get close to each other. There is this strong, I guess I'd call it vibration of anger and violence I detect from him that causes me to keep my distance. He's only lost control physically with me once, but he's got a nasty temper that often manifests itself verbally. I can't criticize him too much though, since I can tell he makes a concerted effort to keep it in check.
INFj
Currently I'd have to say activator SLE. There's this young man that I've never met, but it's just too much fun to goof around in messenger, talking about world domination and personal slaves... A couple of times I've been feeling very unenergetic and depressed - 10 minutes of messenger-chatting with him just cures that! No sexuality involved - he's my little brother's friend and I'm married and I've never met him.
I get along very very very well with my husband (supervisee), but I can't say that 10 minutes of messenger-chatting would give me so much energy.
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Cool ILI hubbys are better than LSIs any time!
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