biggest motivation behind the everyday actions: I have trouble figuring this one out, it's a mix of a need to be accepted, loved and not hurt by other people, also free to pursue interests and financially safe. I think this person needs to be liked. But this person reports needing other people as long as they are of use and uses their connections many times for this person's own benefit. At the same time I've seen this person act seemingly selfless - sometimes it was selfless and sometimes there was a well-hidden personal motivation that kept this person's interests in line with the interests of the person that was receiving the help. Doesn't like taking risks.
guess at instinct 1: so (or sx)
guess at instinct 2: sx (or so)
additional comment: This is someone who can be very helpful to other people, especially as long as believes in their good intentions (and can sacrifice for other people) but at the same time this is a person that has a "switch" into the "now only I matter" mode.
also, there is some more info quite imprtant in typing of this person in the
post above on the idealism in close relationships and attitude to "goods". It's someone seemingly open but difficult to know well on emotional level - very secretive.