Originally Posted by
Blaze
exactly. this is exactly what i've been thinking. especially for a male SEI. they would be like gold to many women, who long for men who care about how they feel.
if any SEI is going to be free in mid life it would be a female SEI. perhaps female SEI is so giving...i could see a lot of men taking advantage to the fullest. it's almost classic: under appreciated and feeling used, female SEI ditches, getting fed up with it, leaving, knowing that she will easily find someone else.
i guess what i'm talking about is not only the influence of age but also gender and social context on ILE-SEI duality. SEI has qualities that are gender congruent for females, and highly coveted in males by women. ILE males, as the saying goes are fully accepted "that's just men" but ILE females kind of a stranger in the culture, not finding their dual when young (i think because we are preoccupied with our professions, since that is where we think most of our worth is found)....and their duals making it work with other types, and only under rare circumstances are they single and free in later life.