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Last edited by xerx; 10-12-2008 at 05:15 AM.
why do you have to know soon? I hate to admit it, but probably for me, very attractive...
I don't really think in terms of requirements though...
Part of me doesn't want to admit this.
Oh well. Too late. I'm posting it.
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Cool ILI hubbys are better than LSIs any time!
Old blog: http://firsttimeinusa.blogspot.com/
New blog: http://having-a-kid.blogspot.com/
Pardon me for hijacking the thread, but since we are on the topic I have a question. How do you beta NF's feel about someone having determination but not physically muscular (or I guess that would be Napoleonic complex)?
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
--Theodore Roosevelt
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover."
-- Mark Twain
"Man who stand on hill with mouth open will wait long time for roast duck to drop in."
-- Confucius
Lefty
ENFJ
"I'm Sick of Old Men Dreaming Up Wars for Young Men To Die In," George McGovern.
[QUOTE=jxrtes;364260]good answers all around... thanks everyone.
Personally speaking, the idea of ever exchanging my nimble Alpha-NT physique for a body frame that's large and muscular, no matter how socially appealing to others, is grotesque and offensive in the extreme. My body as it is, is a vehicule of extreme pride and communicates the impression of a certain [high] level of intellectual detachment.
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more power to you!
Lefty
ENFJ
"I'm Sick of Old Men Dreaming Up Wars for Young Men To Die In," George McGovern.
Lefty
ENFJ
"I'm Sick of Old Men Dreaming Up Wars for Young Men To Die In," George McGovern.
I am not a beta NF girl, but from my experience they definitely are. Whenever I wear something tight-fitting (rarely), there's an ENFj girl I know that wants to touch my pecs (not that I even have many). Rather uncomfortable, but that's because I'm not a sensory type - I'm sure a beta ST would be very proud.
I don't think they're particularly attracted by money though. If I had to choose one side of "power" they might be more attracted to, that would be social power. Ex. Beta girls will respect more the leader of a anarchist gang over a big business leader (and I'd actually agree completely with them)
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Cool ILI hubbys are better than LSIs any time!
Old blog: http://firsttimeinusa.blogspot.com/
New blog: http://having-a-kid.blogspot.com/
By the way, I don't see why one has to be extremely thin in order to have intellectual interests.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
socio: INFp - IEI
ennea: 4w5 sp/sx
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Originally Posted by Mark Twain
This made me laugh.Originally Posted by jxrtes
Last edited by marooned; 07-28-2008 at 09:43 PM.
What about NiFe beta guys, what do they like?
Personally, I am attracted to the kinds who seem to exude girlish shyness and a certain shadow of masculine confidence at the same time. Though I would expect that the shadow is their real self and the exuded mask is, well a mask (superego NeFi), much like how the confidence I exude is often just my superego block fuelled by I guess, the Se Ti unconscious block that I was able to activate recently, and the quirky happy/emo socially shy me is my true NiFe personality.
Somehow I find male IEI's tending more towards their superego block since SLI seems to be a more excepted personality for males than IEI, while SLE girls may turn to their NeFi superego when assimilating into a society that expects girlish girls.
This may theoretically result in the male NiFe fall in love with the NeFi and the female SeTi fall in love with the SiTe, but only if their respective ego blocks aren't developed well enough.
So in order to function well in society yet live up to one's true self, it is imperative to utilize the all of one's conscious functions when not living in a hermit shell.
One solution, I suppose, to prevent confused identities, is to develop one's SuperID block to a respectable level through exposure with people or situations that activate it. This will result in sufficient strength to hold out the SuperEgo 'mask' in social situations, while allowing the true Ego analyzer to function smoothly in the background, thus preventing any romantic assertions towards people who have your ID block in their ego block.
The ID block, as I am led to believe, fuels the ego block. However I suppose it does not need activation much like the SuperID block but instead needs awakening much like Naruto's nine-tailed demon fox or Ichigo's Ogichi. Knowing the triggers for its activation as well as enough defensive perimeters to hold down this ID beast ss the key to exuding ego confidence, something that will instantly turn on all IEI girls if you are a male SLE who understands this simple means of attaining power - a method which I believe, is far more potent than unrestrained exhibitions of wealth and affluence (be it of the physical body or one's material possessions).
The unconscious blocks are, after all, what Jung calls mana.
She is wiseWhy I love LSEs:
beyond words
beautiful within
her soul
brighter than
the sun
lovelier than
love
dreams larger
than life
and does not
understand the
meaning of no.
Because everything
through her, and in her, is
"Yes, it will be done."
Originally Posted by Abbie