So... I've got a new boyfriend. Definitely IEI. 35 years old and has less relationship experience than I did at 16! I can't figure out why! He said it's because he's shy around girls, but he never seemed shy to me? (He hinted about being interested but always let me lead the way.) And he said he gets *really* into girls without them ever knowing it? idk, I guess I'm wondering if this could be a red flag? Everything else is good. He's a delightfully awkward romantic. ^_^