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Last edited by female; 03-12-2009 at 12:44 PM. Reason: Clarity
Eh, I used to be more agreeable.
Socionics gave me the excuse to tell people to fuck off and feel good about it!
I'm pretty sure your enviornment can make you feel like you have to act in ways that can feel unnatural to you. I think it's when we're this way for far too long that causes us to get kind of fucked up.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Oh yeah, I definitely agree about tact. I mean, if not, then we have to deal with them being angry and pissy blah blah blah, in the end we're just making it harder on ourselves, no?
But i'm sorry to say, I've never felt the need to be a benefactor. I've felt more the need to be an ENTp big thinker type. But somehow I always found ways to get too hung up on details, which tended to frustrate me to no end because I always thought I had to be a big thinker to be a better person.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
yeah, fuck the negative vibes man. I just tend to remove myself when things get like that. Especially if it starts to become too much. I just find some types of people to care way too much about every single word, every single interaction. Just relax, right?
So just living by yourself made you realize ISTp?
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
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Last edited by Suomea; 09-27-2008 at 10:50 PM.
Suomea
I tried being my own benefactor once, but I just couldn't reach and nearly broke my neck trying :/
Last edited by bg; 07-03-2008 at 03:46 PM.
Damnit, BG!
I don't think I ever act like my Benefactor, to be honest. I occasionally hit phases where I desperately need to get things together, but never in a remotely LSE fashion.
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7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
Oh, thanks a lot man.
Yeah most of the time when I answer I have to tell myself to be honest with myself. I've found a lot of the stuff I do ("out there") is forced only because I want to be nice and not have to deal with pissed off idiots.
And "by a world of shit" I meant both positive and negative... kind of just a huge shift I guess. Although at the moment I might as well live alone, everyone In my house is gone except for 1 guy.
But thanks
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
I relate to this... I grew up in a family with my conflictor, supervisor, and benefactor... For a long time, I acted like a ENFj (b/c that behavior was valued in my house) until I got out of the situation and became myself a bit more.
anyone ever try yoga..? I'm thinking about trying yoga.
I never tried yoga....but it migt be one way to get in touch with yourself and leave the whole benefactor thing alone.
I used to be consumed with some ESFj energies when i was younger long before i knew that such a thing existed.
...now i'm over it and i ain't looking back! or for now.
ENTP:wink:ALPHA
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I'm still emo-ing over my type so I'm not that far yet. =/ I like to hear other people's suggestions but I need good reasons. Not just a 'You are XXXX, there' that won't do it.