Originally Posted by
wacey
Some points:
-Sounds like someone is being strung along.
-If his problems are legitimate, he might be looking for you to rescue him.
-he might also be respecting you and what you have by keeping you at arms length so that you don't get involved. This is a guy thing.
-The texting could be anything, not enough details to make a proper assessment. I know I can be the worst texter with friends and family. One thing though, if I really liked the person I would text immediately.
-ENTp, are not luke warm if they like someone there should be definite signs there.
-he sounds as though he is letting you down easy and expecting you to pick up on that. You say he is a blunt person, and yet he is dropping such subtle hints, might mean something. What it means is up to you, could be he is testing you to see if you'd still like him even thogh he has low self-esteem. Could also mean he is waiting for you to be the one to say goodbye, so that it reinforces his self-conception. Or could just be he doesn't know how to end it with you, cause part of him likes your company in some way.
-being on his own could be for any number of reasons. some boys like to be on their own.
-At 24/25, ime, especially boys, no one wants to talk about family kids and marriage, especially if his own life is so unstable. If you want him around, I would move on from those domestic topics.
-nothing wrong with analyzing, but you can drop the stress.
-if a person is making you feel stress often, and something about your relationship doesn't feel right despite all your efforts together, then yeah, something needs to happen and you might not like that something.
-you say you really "click", then good call on seeking advice, ime, sparks are worth holding on to.
-don't over analyze with an ENTp, every minute detail of your time together cause that will only drive him away.